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55.1.2.6>50 relationship
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Hi eleodd,
Welcome to Clarity!
Can you say more about your situation? What question did you ask?
Welcome to Clarity!
Can you say more about your situation? What question did you ask?
Hello .. yes my situation is a little strange. I've been chatting with a man on and off for almost two years (it all started in november 2013 and finished in August 2014) Last january he texted me again (after more than one year of silence, basically he disappeared). Then he turned up again as I said. We've chatted for three months in a very deep emotional and intense way...we were (can I say) "in love"? We were really close and in contact at any possible time, giving one another mutual love and so much attraction going on between the two of us. In april he decided to cut it short with me again for many different reasons, but again he disappeared. Now as I 'm so hurt and still in love (and I just can't believe he has forgotten about me and about the intensity which was really strong) , I asked ching if we're destined to meet, if there will be a development, if the two of us are going to "solve" this knot .. I do think we're two souls predestined to something great, but this is sthing I feel in the deep of my heart. Useless to say we live far from each other (1000 km or so)... and that we're both married but unhappy.. so my question was "can there be a development with him?" "Will we meet sooner or later?" "Is a relationship possible with this man?"... response: 55 with lines 1.2.6 changing, turning into 50. What do you (honestly) think? Should I wait for him? Can I continue hoping for something to happen? .... thanks to all willing to help!
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Thank you, eleodd, for the context to your toss, nicely done!
"Is a relationship possible with this man?"
55.1.2.6 to 50 ~ thunder/fire to fire/wind ~ closed eye (blind) to clear sight ~ "If you open your eyes to 'what is', then the answer will be obvious."
When you feel trapped in a loveless marriage, any emotional connection with another person can feel like a ray of hope for a better life...but, but, but, emotions are like tides ~ they come and go, like this guy.
Emotional connection, then, as a substitute for a lack of love doesn't rise to the level of timeless love, which is where you really want to be. I use the washer machine drawing to show this:
One of these images is you when you are emotionally entangled with your man ~ transient, but it feels like you're alive ~ and yet it's still depleting...
...and the other image is you sharing the present moment in full awareness with your man ~ constant deep feelings and clear thinking ~ effortless and non-depleting.
If you find yourself interested in choosing option two, then I highly recommend you read "The Untethered Soul" by Michael Singer.
The only real way out of your conundrum isn't through emotional connection alone, but rather through yourself to find the primordial love at the root of all things.
Once you see this for yourself, you'll know what to do...
I hope this helps!
"Is a relationship possible with this man?"
55.1.2.6 to 50 ~ thunder/fire to fire/wind ~ closed eye (blind) to clear sight ~ "If you open your eyes to 'what is', then the answer will be obvious."
When you feel trapped in a loveless marriage, any emotional connection with another person can feel like a ray of hope for a better life...but, but, but, emotions are like tides ~ they come and go, like this guy.
Emotional connection, then, as a substitute for a lack of love doesn't rise to the level of timeless love, which is where you really want to be. I use the washer machine drawing to show this:
One of these images is you when you are emotionally entangled with your man ~ transient, but it feels like you're alive ~ and yet it's still depleting...
...and the other image is you sharing the present moment in full awareness with your man ~ constant deep feelings and clear thinking ~ effortless and non-depleting.
If you find yourself interested in choosing option two, then I highly recommend you read "The Untethered Soul" by Michael Singer.
The only real way out of your conundrum isn't through emotional connection alone, but rather through yourself to find the primordial love at the root of all things.
Once you see this for yourself, you'll know what to do...
I hope this helps!
Hello eleodd,
I'm new to the community myself, so I will try to share with you my two cents thoughts.
I find IC is mostly intuitive and it can have many interpretations, so you need to "feel" which interpretation resonates with you, the danger is I find myself many times "wanting" certain answers, so then my interpretation isn't correct, so it's always good to get an unbiased version.
55-abundance. Wilhelhm: The king attains abundance. Be not sad. Be like the sun at midday. (the warning here is even though it's a good sign but it's short and one needs to take advantage of the sun at noon)
55.1- meeting your mate, but it can change later.
55.2-it looks like there's some misunderstanding here but if you continue to be sincere and truthful, you will be able to influence him.
55.6- this line sounds like he may have portrayed you as being arrogance and therefore, his door is shut.
So I think that the overall picture here is the relationship was going well but only for a short term and there's more work to be done here to make this work. There's a need for some sort of transformation on your end, perhaps more sincere and truthful.
I think since you have many questions, it's hard to be specific. It would be better to have a specific question and cast IC again for the next question.
I hope this helps and best of luck!!
I'm new to the community myself, so I will try to share with you my two cents thoughts.
I find IC is mostly intuitive and it can have many interpretations, so you need to "feel" which interpretation resonates with you, the danger is I find myself many times "wanting" certain answers, so then my interpretation isn't correct, so it's always good to get an unbiased version.
55-abundance. Wilhelhm: The king attains abundance. Be not sad. Be like the sun at midday. (the warning here is even though it's a good sign but it's short and one needs to take advantage of the sun at noon)
55.1- meeting your mate, but it can change later.
55.2-it looks like there's some misunderstanding here but if you continue to be sincere and truthful, you will be able to influence him.
55.6- this line sounds like he may have portrayed you as being arrogance and therefore, his door is shut.
So I think that the overall picture here is the relationship was going well but only for a short term and there's more work to be done here to make this work. There's a need for some sort of transformation on your end, perhaps more sincere and truthful.
I think since you have many questions, it's hard to be specific. It would be better to have a specific question and cast IC again for the next question.
I hope this helps and best of luck!!
My dear friends, first of all a big THANK YOU for your support and help... as I said before the situation is quite complicated because it was a VIRTUAL relationship... no physical contact. We've never met. At first it was a matter of mutual attraction (you know.. whatsapp, pics and so on) that soon turned into something more "serious" so to say, and we got deeply involved in deep feelings... at least that's what I thought and what I really felt. The fact is that after 3 months' chat (and phone calls as well) he said to me one day that he had to slow down with messages as he was having problems with his wife - which is hard to believe. He just stopped writing. He stopped it all abruptly. I haven't heard from him since the end of april. It's really hard to accept all this because I just can't believe it was all fake. A normal man (or a man who just wanted to play a stupid game) wouldn't have wasted so many energies on that. The energies I'm talking about are too long to explain by chat.. but believe me... it was all magic, we were really and deeply connected. As far as sincerity you mentioned.. well I've never been more sincere in my life. The point is: has he? You see, it's not me wanting to put an end. It's him. Were it for me I'd be very willing to meet him and see. I'm quite sure we are on the same wave-lenghth and that we want and need the same things. Sorry to give you the impression of being a silly teen ager dealing with love matters... but I'm looking at facts as they are. I feel we could have at least started something. Don't ask me what it is because I don't know. Now I'm wondering what exagram 50 means... it should be the final response to my question, which doesn't look so bad... if I'm here (like everyone here) is because I need a "super partes" take on it, an unbiased interpretation. To make me reflect about him. And I do hope he'll get in touch again, hoping for a resolution or confrontation, no matter whether it'll go one way or another.... as I'm not English I hope you've understood my words, my feelings and I hope to have made a clear picture of my story. Hugs and kisses to you all☺
Hi eleodd,
My experience with 50 has been some sort of transformation/renewal but I guess because I had been focusing on "self-improvement" so it resonates with me as a change that needs to take place. However, I ran into this post and it talks about 50 as a triangle relationship so I'm posting a link here so you read more about it.
http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?16634-Soulmate-Please-help-interpret
All the best!
My experience with 50 has been some sort of transformation/renewal but I guess because I had been focusing on "self-improvement" so it resonates with me as a change that needs to take place. However, I ran into this post and it talks about 50 as a triangle relationship so I'm posting a link here so you read more about it.
http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?16634-Soulmate-Please-help-interpret
All the best!
F
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Hi eleodd.
Nice to meet you! I’m also new to the forum so please take my interpretation with a pinch of newbie salt.. but i’ll have a crack at this..!
Sounds like you asked 3 questions? :
if we're destined to meet
if there will be a development
if the two of us are going to "solve" this knot .. ?
I've had a bit of a realisation lately that asking very clear questions helps with very clear answers so maybe ask these 3 as separate questions to get a bit more clarity?
Here's what I am getting.. but again with 3 questions and my limited experience.. who knows maybe something will resonate for you:
55.1
sounds like there’s something you have learnt from sharing what feels like a deep connection with this man though it may not be meant to last (some for a season some for a reason and some forever type scenario)
55.2 - there are little signs here.. that you need to reflect on and see if you can trust - upon meditation what’s the truth of this situation? I don't know about you but often with the benefit of hindsight there were little signs i knew on some instinctive level and chose not to really see.. reflect on it.. what do your instincts tell you?
55.6
the surrounding circumstances are quite intense and so this might have resulted in the on off situation you are experiencing.. perhaps it's easier for him/for you/for you both to connect and then isolate and not face potential reperucussions of connecting in a real life way?
resulting hex 50
is this your position now do you think? sounds like you are in the process of being transformed in some vital way - an inner transformation that this connection has facilitated?
warm wishes,
s
ps - this is nothing taken from the reading but I have had the experience of falling for people before having met them (online) only to realise that it was a complete fantasy and when we met in real life it was completely different to my imaginings!! I now have a self imposed rule that very short online interactions must lead quickly to coffee's! could you meet? or if distance an issue Skype so that you get more of a true sense of your chemistry etc..?
Nice to meet you! I’m also new to the forum so please take my interpretation with a pinch of newbie salt.. but i’ll have a crack at this..!
Sounds like you asked 3 questions? :
if we're destined to meet
if there will be a development
if the two of us are going to "solve" this knot .. ?
I've had a bit of a realisation lately that asking very clear questions helps with very clear answers so maybe ask these 3 as separate questions to get a bit more clarity?
Here's what I am getting.. but again with 3 questions and my limited experience.. who knows maybe something will resonate for you:
55.1
sounds like there’s something you have learnt from sharing what feels like a deep connection with this man though it may not be meant to last (some for a season some for a reason and some forever type scenario)
55.2 - there are little signs here.. that you need to reflect on and see if you can trust - upon meditation what’s the truth of this situation? I don't know about you but often with the benefit of hindsight there were little signs i knew on some instinctive level and chose not to really see.. reflect on it.. what do your instincts tell you?
55.6
the surrounding circumstances are quite intense and so this might have resulted in the on off situation you are experiencing.. perhaps it's easier for him/for you/for you both to connect and then isolate and not face potential reperucussions of connecting in a real life way?
resulting hex 50
is this your position now do you think? sounds like you are in the process of being transformed in some vital way - an inner transformation that this connection has facilitated?
warm wishes,
s
ps - this is nothing taken from the reading but I have had the experience of falling for people before having met them (online) only to realise that it was a complete fantasy and when we met in real life it was completely different to my imaginings!! I now have a self imposed rule that very short online interactions must lead quickly to coffee's! could you meet? or if distance an issue Skype so that you get more of a true sense of your chemistry etc..?
Thank you so much for your help. I followed your advice and I decided to ask one more question. Basically it' s about "transformation". I asked if there can be transformation, change, development. Or some sort of unblocking the present state. I got 3 with lines 1 and 5 changing turning into fnal exagram 2. The impression I got is that's it's not that bad.. but I'm an absolute beginner so I don't really know what to expect. I read the link you sent.. quite interesting and illuminating. I must say. If you have any clues for this last reading.. I'd be really grateful if you could help. Have a nice sleep!☺
Flip flops, thanks! It does resonate to me in many ways. Yes possibly I'm in the process of being transformed... I think it was something I had to go through, even though I haven't got over it yet.. I still feel I must resolve something. My soul needs purification or simply needs to ACCEPT reality... hugs n kisses☺
SORRY I WAS WRONG. THE RIGHT EXAGRAM WAS 19.1.2>2. I meant I got 2 again, not 3.
I asked if there can be transformation, change, development. Or some sort of unblocking the present state. I got 3 with lines 1 and 5 changing turning into fnal exagram 2
3.1- There is some uncertainty. Continue to persevere and seek for assistance.
3.5- Blofeld: Fertility cannot easily be brought about. Persistence in small things will bring good fortune; in greater matters, it will bring disaster.
2 – Receptive, submissive
I think the message here is there's some difficulty in the beginning, but don't give up in carrying out what is right, perhaps you can seek for assistance. There might be an obstruction (trying too hard?) that may prevent the flow of energy needed to understand the whole picture. Therefore, you may want to “relax”, take one step at a time and allow the situation to unfold at its own time.
I hope this helps !!
3.1- There is some uncertainty. Continue to persevere and seek for assistance.
3.5- Blofeld: Fertility cannot easily be brought about. Persistence in small things will bring good fortune; in greater matters, it will bring disaster.
2 – Receptive, submissive
I think the message here is there's some difficulty in the beginning, but don't give up in carrying out what is right, perhaps you can seek for assistance. There might be an obstruction (trying too hard?) that may prevent the flow of energy needed to understand the whole picture. Therefore, you may want to “relax”, take one step at a time and allow the situation to unfold at its own time.
I hope this helps !!
F
flipflops
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Hi eleodd,
I so identify with the sense it's something you needed to go through but haven't got over yet.. I'm in a similar feeling place myself.. one day at a time I guess and who knows how this will turn out for you? Acceptance is a big one isn't it.. wouldn't it be wonderful to be in a permanent state of acceptance... progress not perfection I guess!
Great to ask another question.. I have found on this forum that when another reading is mentioned within a thread it seems not to get answers - I think the protocol maybe to start another thread? That way you might find you get more responses.. I'm not sure exactly of the etiquette but I've noticed this from reading previous threads!
best, s
I so identify with the sense it's something you needed to go through but haven't got over yet.. I'm in a similar feeling place myself.. one day at a time I guess and who knows how this will turn out for you? Acceptance is a big one isn't it.. wouldn't it be wonderful to be in a permanent state of acceptance... progress not perfection I guess!
Great to ask another question.. I have found on this forum that when another reading is mentioned within a thread it seems not to get answers - I think the protocol maybe to start another thread? That way you might find you get more responses.. I'm not sure exactly of the etiquette but I've noticed this from reading previous threads!
best, s