59.1>61 Relationship Troubles

[AllenWright]

Lately, I've been having doubts on how my girlfriend truly feels about me. I have tried repeatedly to open the conversation, but she doesn't respond to me. I feel like we have drifted apart and there's nothing that can be done now to fix our relationship. Today, I asked It's time to end the relationship with my girlfriend? and I received 59.1 > 61I have been considering ending it, but I still care about her a lot. I don't know if I'm the right person for her. I can't seem to make her happy and our relationship has changed significantly from where it was a year ago when we moved in together. I have tried. God knows I have tried, but I don't know if there's anything I could do to change things.Last night she told me that she has been feeling depressed and that she has nothing to look forward to. I asked her why she felt that way and she give me her frequent response: "I don't know".

 

[Carmina]

Hi! I think you are not reading well, too touched to take a distance an see. The question is of a yes/no type and very difficult to read in those terms. But the Yi has answered you something regarding your concern. It said, maybe, that you need to dispel fears, illusions and suspicions to bring your inner being and the outer circumstances into a sincere and reliable accord. The lower trigram is Kan, is the ear. Your line is the most inner one. Maybe you need to listen better, more, differently. She said she's been depressed, she said she doesn't know why. Listen to that, maybe she is the one needing the strength of your horse. Have you read the first line in 61? Do not rush into a decision. Hope I helped you think further. Best

 

[rosada]

I see 59.1 - 61 as saying there is a problem between you two which needs to be dealt with so you can reconnect with that inner connection. I don't see it as telling you that a break up is inevitable but it does seem to confirm there is a real problem that must be dealt with and quickly too.
If you are being advised to listen, perhaps you are being advised to listen to what she is saying right now, "I'm depressed and I don't know why." Perhaps she needs a medical evaluation. Even if the refuses or says, "Oh, it's not THAT bad!" it could trigger some conversation - Inner Truth.
Meanwhile, cooking together is a great bonding experience!

 

[rosada]

I see 59.1 - 61 as saying there is a problem between you two which needs to be dealt with so you can reconnect with that inner connection. I don't see it as telling you that a break up is inevitable but it does seem to confirm there is a real problem that must be dealt with and quickly too.
If you are being advised to listen, perhaps you are being advised to listen to what she is saying right now, "I'm depressed and I don't know why." Perhaps she needs a medical evaluation. Even if the refuses or says, "Oh, it's not THAT bad!" it could trigger some conversation - Inner Truth.
Meanwhile, cooking together is a great bonding experience!

 

[tubinluv]

I think Yi is advising that you do have the strength to deal with this. I think the strength here is it looks like you do care for her a lot. I agree with Rosada that seeking medical evaluation should be considered; however, a thought just crossed my mind, what if when you talk to her, tell her that you care for her and it bothers you when she's unhappy and ask her if there's anything you can do to make her feel better? I'm saying this because I think when a partner asks a question with sincerity then the other party tends to open up more rather than just "what's wrong?"

just a thought... I hope things will work out for you.