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I wrote on here a week ago about a man I've been interested in for about the past 6 months. I thought things were pretty good between us, we aren't dating but we were taking more time to get to know each other which was making me happy. I thought he was interested in me as well, but hopelessly shy like me. Occasionally he would act like he was about to say something important but couldn’t. Those interactions felt intense, in a way that was scary to me. He honestly seemed intensely interested at the time and it terrified me. Anyway nothing has gone forward and our relationship is still not very deep. I feel like this has gone on too long and something needs to change. I wanted to know if it’s because he isn’t actually interested or maybe he is afraid of relationships. Maybe he found someone else. Lately he seems to be losing interest in talking to me. I’m sad.
How does he feel about being involved with me ………….. 36.3>24
I asked this because I could have misinterpreted his feelings. I’m guessing this means he is retreating, but the light is still shining. I also think that if you hide the light long enough it can go out. Is this what he wants? Changing line 3 suggests there is something difficult that he has trouble dealing with in regards to me. The 24 seems promising though. He might come back if I’m patient.
Advice for me to follow, in order to weather this whole thing (I’m trying hard not to attach myself to outcomes, but it’s difficult) 61.2.6>3
I suppose it means the situation will change and the change will be difficult. It doesn’t suggest how it will change, does it? Changing line 6 suggests that this relationship has no substance? Yet the 2 suggests we resonate.
What are the chances of ever being together? …………….. 6.5>64
The result made me sad so I asked again and got 64 unchanging. Does this mean that there is no answer as of yet, that decisions are still being made? Or does it mean that the relationship will stay as it is, incomplete and never quite connecting. There are so many ways to read iChing that it is really very confusing.

I really appreciate any answer at all. Thank you so much.
 
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How does he feel about being involved with me ………….. 36.3>24

He sees you as a friend, an acquaintance, someone nice to talk to, no strings, just an open friendship.

Advice for me to follow, in order to weather this whole thing (I’m trying hard not to attach myself to outcomes, but it’s difficult) 61.2.6>3

This indicates to remain on good and friendly terms with him, try having a coffee together or something, when he has the time, while line 61.6 is about making a firm commitment towards him, so show your warmth of feeling towards him, okay your shy, but you can friendly and enthusiastic.

Hex 3 is about new beginnings and therefore it advises patience.

What are the chances of ever being together? …………….. 6.5>64

This is indicates that the potential is there but it is down to you to be careful and cautious how you deal this shy man.
 
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aine

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Thanks Willowfox. That's completely awesome of you to reply, and an awesome reply. You reponse makes a more sense to me than what I was thinking. I really appreciate it.
 

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