Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Hi friends,
It's been a while but I've been lucky enough to be doing some I ching work via school (yeah, sweet school I go to!). I've been asking several questions but of course it always comes back to love and money, doesn't it
I asked the I Ching "What is the deal with me and the fact that I've never had a romantic relationship, nor anyone reasonably interested in one with me? It's making me nuts."
and got 60.2->3
Yeah...
Backstory: I am 30, reasonably attractive, very good health, intellect, artistic, I will spare you the details of course. I think I am not a horrible person generally and I have somehow managed to acquire some very cool people as friends, so hopefully that means I'm not a total dud! On paper I seem to be a catch, and in person people have no idea why I don't or never have had any interest, other than a few friends telling me they think men just might be intimidated or just not interested in my sort of person (I present well, but am not super trendy nor wear a lot of makeup, especially here in Tinseltown; I've a wide variety of subjects I'm interested in, but have never owned a TV, I get excited about random types of music and like to share, but don't know a lot of typical 'merican pop culture stuff even though I'm born and raised).
I am realizing that the problem is that I don't really do the best job of playing yin to yang, at least as far as men can tell. I tend to be a very active and "masculine" in a sense (intellectual, being interested and animated about subjects men usually are, doing things where I am often the only girl doing it, flirting with words and asking men out rather than somehow being the honey to the bees...how do other women do this? I just am not successful, men often tell me I am an ideal woman, but one they would not ever be interested in, or I am too good for them. No I am not a crazy narcissist, this is what I am told over and over again BS!). I think there is something though about me that's not seeming calm or receptive or caring, though I KNOW I can do these things and I get feedback from others (bosses, coworkers, friends, whatever) that I am capable of this for sure. Or somehow I am not feminine enough, even though I wear dresses fairly often- it's somehow an attitude thing?
Anyway, I'm a little confused since yes, things are certainly limited, but I'm not sure if it almost seems fated/karmic here with the general hex. Line two says that the moment for action must be seized, but if no one is interested when I grab it, what do I do, or then what? And I feel that I probably should not be making the action so much anyway (leading to even more of nothing going on). Certainly no one is making any sort of overtures to me.
Going to 3 certainly echoes that it's difficult for me to begin a relationship. Potentially once it all gets a rollin' things will be much smoother. Other than preparing myself for a relationship, what am I directed to do (if anything)?
Would love interpretations since I tend to be off, thanks!
Feminine power is real power, and it makes masculine power look positively creme puff. Male power withers to dust and blows away when female power so much as turns looking at it without batting an eye. Men have to prance and posture and struggle. A woman can enter the room and control it all.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).