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64.2.4.6>2 relationship questions

moodclad

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Hi. I'm new and have been ghosting for over a year. I still feel like I have little knowledge, but I'm working on learning.

Quick summation of the situation: I exited a relationship with a man who is unavailable (IMO and what he says) due to going through the process of separating/divorce from his 25 year marriage. I've known this man and been friends for 30 years. It was extremely painful to walk away as I love him and believe that if the timing was different ....

I am torn regarding how to read the hexagram.

My question was "What kind of relationship will X and I build together." 64.2.4.6.>2

The way I want to read it: things aren't done. 2; stop interacting/ a need for distance (walking away is the correct thing to do for myself and him as he needs time to do what needs to be done to complete his divorce.) 4; the hard work of staying away and building a life for myself and healing within myself what needs to be healed 6; he will return and I need to stay cautious and slow moving to explore instead of just plunging in the second he comes back (which will require that emotional stability I have to gain during 4)

I wonder if it should be read: 2. stop interacting 4. work on building a life for myself 6. someone new comes
(but then wouldn't it be 63 or am I in denial cause I want him to come back)

Any insight would be appreciated. I'm so confused :confused:
thanks
 
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moodclad

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I asked what kind of response I would get to this post (as there hasn't been any yet) and I got 52.3 to 23
hmmmm
 

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"What kind of relationship will X and I build together." 64.2.4.6.>2

One that is initially stopped / has the brakes on. A great and long struggle will be needed in order to subdue bad elements between you. The "bad elements" seem to be that one of you is not honest with the other, and does things behind the other's back (hidden line 35.4).

At some point in the future the struggles will be completed and there will be a celebration - however I'm not sure it will be between you... as hidden line 23.6 speaks of a separation. This may also mean that the guy has someone else, behind your back, so maybe he'll split up with her to be with you? Don't know, I'm unsure about who will split with who.

In any case, this doesn't look like a smooth honest relationship I'm afraid...
 

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I asked what kind of response I would get to this post (as there hasn't been any yet) and I got 52.3 to 23
hmmmm
Pretty good advice: calm down and be patient when waiting for a response. :D
 
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