64,5 > The last fight

[oponopono]

could I read 64,5 as the ultimate fight, the one that settles it?

This is about a very charged polemic work relationship, and though they keep clashing, this weekend these two had a fight like I never saw before, which can put my entire project at stake. I kind of need them to work together, but I need them to be happy at it, as well
right now i see they are both in pain so I just asked for an image of what happened with them through the weekend and got
64,5 > 6

6 is the perfect depiction of them, but how come line 5 feels so luminous and they are both so much clinging to their Shadows, and projecting them onto one another?
Today was silent, they were giving each other the cold treatment (icy, I might add!) and it is a bit unbearable working in an environment like that. I'm as well concerned for them both, they seem to suffer with this.

any thoughts on this line in a situation of prolonged conflict? Can this be the one that settles it?

Thank you
:bows:

 

[Stillpoint]

Re line 5, maybe through the weekend each one had the feeling they'd "won?" In my experience, fights can be like that....after the heat of battle each person rewinds the tape to replay in their heads the great points they believe they scored. But with time, self-doubt can creep in and each person may then realize that although they made spectacular points, perhaps they didn't win esp because the other party isn't acting defeated or apologetic? So the conflict remains.

I wonder if you cast to see what your role might be in this relationship because even if you don't want to be involved, I'm thinking that just by being an observer you're part of a triangle. They could even be using you however unwittingly, as an audience, a potential referee, or a witness?

 

[xuesongyu]

Hello friend:

Hex 64.5 stands for an upright and excellent man, so I think the major cause of their quarrel is one of them. Maybe one person is jealous of other person, so they begin a pointless quarrel.

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[RindaR]

If you watch something, it changes.

Without knowing the source of the conflict, I agree that each may reflect to the other a part of themselves that they don't like to see, as you say projecting their Shadows on each other.

Light itself has no shadow. If you can see past their conflict, perhaps the luminosity can come from you. I wonder if your consistent and unwavering awareness of this interplay might help dissipate the negative energy. Some verbal and/or non-verbal response that indicates to each " I know you are unhappy and confused and I need you to be able to cooperate so we can complete this project." If you can avoid taking sides or entering into the conflict, consistently, and just observe with respect for their pain, I think things may improve.

Let me know if this helps?

 

[oponopono]

If you can see past their conflict, perhaps the luminosity can come from you. I wonder if your consistent and unwavering awareness of this interplay might help dissipate the negative energy. Some verbal and/or non-verbal response that indicates to each " I know you are unhappy and confused and I need you to be able to cooperate so we can complete this project." If you can avoid taking sides or entering into the conflict, consistently, and just observe with respect for their pain, I think things may improve.

Let me know if this helps?

it sure does. tks, rinda, stillpoint and xuesongyu ...

I was looking at it again before reading rinda's reply and wondering if 64,5 could be me, keeping my head clear in a time of 6. The problem is that I did not want this role, between them. I think they have to figure this out together and not “wait for mama” to step in. But today we had a long talk and, worst scenario possible, they both want to leave the project...

perhaps 64,5 means that they had enough of struggling and that is a luminous idea, to leave.

I don't know, I'm very disheartened about the whole thing...

thanks for your feedback!:bows:

 

[rosada]

I asked about the war in Ukraine and got this hexagram and line. I thought it was kinda interesting to see how this earlier reading seemed to be the same situation. I wonder how it worked out for them...