Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
So I asked if I "should" do this - and back comes Innocence changing to Following with a changing line 6 - Berkers, Wing and anyone else I can find says
"Acting upon one's feelings and impulses is a severe mistake. Better not do this, it doesn't help one. It is better to just feel these feelings without acting them out."
I checked with a solicitor, who laughed and said that I was being incredibly generous.
Now, as we enter a new year, I feel as though I would like to change this arrangement and not pay any more money to fund the lifestyle of my ex- and her new man. This would free me to move to a larger place and to get on with my life.
Why? the worst case scenario is that my ex- gets mad/sad and demands that we sell the house and split the loss. Or that she moves out and I am forced to take over the house again and to pay the mortgage...but neither of these is especially onerous. I would gain some valuable income every month so why the "don't do it/severe mistake" admonishment?
Or am I misunderstanding the Yi's angle on this?
Have I maybe been the innocent (as my friends tell me)?...
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).