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spica

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Hi all,
I hope someone can help with an i ching 'puzzle' regarding 2 questions I asked.
The first is, can I expect a contact from him soon? I got 54.4>19. I was looking it up and it speaks of a marriage hexagram. However, my question was just about contact. Does it indicate an intent, in a distant future?
The next question, would be, if he loves me. I got a 30, unchanged. I do not understand 30 very much, as it speaks of clinging, etc. As of now, we are not together, so I am not quite sure what 30 means.
Not too long before, I asked, what are his feelings for me, and I got 25 unchanging. Does it seem like a stark contrast? 25 seems to say keep one's independence.
Any help will be appreciated. I do have some inkling on what the hexagram says. I would like to hear your interpretations.
 

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can I expect a contact from him soon? I got 54.4>19.
It will not happen as soon as you'd like, or how you would like.
The next question, would be, if he loves me. I got a 30, unchanged.
I see this hex as sorting things out, a distancing to gain clarity.
I asked, what are his feelings for me, and I got 25 unchanging.
For the time being, keeping it simple by steering clear of any emotional attachments.

I don't see this person as wanting to be dragged down in any way...he call the shots, and doesn't want to answer to anyone.
 

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can I expect a contact from him soon? I got 54.4>19.

Not "soon" but certainly later.

The next question, was, if he loves me? I got a 30

Yes, I would say that he does, this hex says that he needs you like you need him.

I asked, what are his feelings for me, and I got 25 unchanging?

This hex is innocence, so he has no ulterior or hidden agenda, what you see is what you get, so his feelings are straight up.
 

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In my opinion 54.4 means that he pefers to wait for a more suitable person for a relationship, because in this he feels he would have to be submisive and not in an equal situation.

A yes/no question is hard to answer. 30 means conditioned attachement. Again, he feels that this relationship would condition him somehow.

I agree with zander about 25 unchanged
 

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Thank you for your interpretations! They're all right in their own way. Zander, you're right in that he calls the shots and doesn't want to be dragged down. txortx, you're right too, he's probably waiting (probably for someone more 'suitable').
willowfox, your assessment is accurate because it answers the question straight up. Yes he is busy now, and he does need me (I know that), and he's got no agenda.
we broke up due to a few factors but I know he is coming back. For the time being, he is sorting things out.
Thanks for your answers:)

I just want to add that probably 30 gives the submissive feel to him, but he's actually very dominant. Strange thing is I agree with all the answers even though they're somehow different. Relationships are all conditioned attachments; they cant come and go as they please..
 
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