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akath19

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Hey

I haven't been around much lately (many problems and a lot of work haven't really let me concentrate on anything else), but recently I've decided to "retake" (so to speak) the Yi for guidance.

All of my next readings have to do with a relationship with a girl (and I know some people here hate relationship readings but it's probably the most asked about topic), to summarize the story, she had a boyfriend 7 years ago and after they ended the guy kept on literally harassing her to come back with him, finally after 3 years of harassment she went to his house on Monday and had sex with him (unprotected) and now she thinks she is pregnant, I had a long conversation with her about what happened and the guy and everything, and she realized that he doesn't love her but is obsessed with her (if you want details please ask, but it's a lot of information) and she decided to buy on of those "day after" pills.

Anyways she's a great friend of mine and I've always felt some sort of love for her (the thing is that I really love her, but right now I feel that I just want her to be happy), and yesterday she told me that she couldn't have a relationship with anybody because she was still looking for the same relationship that she had with the abusive guy from above.

So after that I decided to ask the Yi the following questions (and I do feel that these questions are important because yesterday and today have been extremely high synchronicity days, at least for me):

1) Show me the path that I should follow in my relationship with X for the rest of this year? 64.3.4 > 18

I see this as waiting for the right moment (after all right now is probably not a good time) and being very careful about what I say or do with her. I also see the 18 as working on helping her fix whatever's wrong with her (regarding her ex-boyfriend and all)

2) Describe to me my current relationship with X? 49

This one's kinda tricky because while I do believe that we're going through a revolution I don't really know which direction can it take.

3) What should I expect from my relationship with X for the rest of this year? 34.1.2 > 62

A very similar (IMHO) reading to the first, it also seems to say that there's going to be a waiting period and after that things will get better.

4) What should I expect from X for the rest of this year? 34

This one I honestly just don't get.


Now I'm looking for some second opinion's (I'm probably biased and looking at it subjectively) and some general guidance, can anyone please help me with this??

P.S.: Sorry for the long post, most of it probably wasn't really necessary.
 

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4) What should I expect from X for the rest of this year? 34

This one I honestly just don't get.
In the development of your friendship 34 suggests a continued struggle against obstruction.

Its Image,
Thus the superior man does not tread upon paths
That do not accord with established order.
that the friendship be advanced by following accepted customs and proprieties. Introduce her to the groups you participate in.
 

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In the development of your friendship 34 suggests a continued struggle against obstruction.

Its Image,

that the friendship be advanced by following accepted customs and proprieties. Introduce her to the groups you participate in.

Thank you for your response, but I don't quite see 34 as struggle against obstruction, I see it as a lot of potential and force that have to be applied very carefully.

Regarding the introduction, what's weird is that most of the groups that I belong, she belongs to as well (except for my work, her work and her bellydance classes), so I don't think I can introduce her to anything else.
 

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hi,
the readings are linear and connected.

like Pocossin saw... you have to expect trouble with X... 34 is a hex of great forces... but always forces to control to dominate... this mean that X will try to dominate or prevaricate you. you must expect an egoistic behavior.

the key of the lecture is the fact that the question is about a relationship.. that is different from a work question and so on.
the advice of hex 34 is well known.. it has to do with great force that if uncontrolled could easy be arrogance.

all the readings... don't let expect sunny days... for example the 49 indicate also divorce/separation in a legal way... so think about.
also... the final 62 talk about not to much to get..

now... it would be nice to know, how really is the condition of the relation with X from your point of view!

hope to help

Patro
 

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hi,
the readings are linear and connected.

like Pocossin saw... you have to expect trouble with X... 34 is a hex of great forces... but always forces to control to dominate... this mean that X will try to dominate or prevaricate you. you must expect an egoistic behavior.

the key of the lecture is the fact that the question is about a relationship.. that is different from a work question and so on.
the advice of hex 34 is well known.. it has to do with great force that if uncontrolled could easy be arrogance.

all the readings... don't let expect sunny days... for example the 49 indicate also divorce/separation in a legal way... so think about.
also... the final 62 talk about not to much to get..

now... it would be nice to know, how really is the condition of the relation with X from your point of view!

hope to help

Patro

Well, from my point of view we're friends, we had a bad time in the summer but that was cleared up and after what she said to me on Tuesday I think there's the possibility of a relationship.

After reading your interpretation your words resonated but not with her attitudes but with mine, she's never tried to control me or anything like that, on the contrary I've been guilty of that a few times, besides I know that she doesn't have a big ego (after all people with big egos don't get into abusive relationships), so I'm starting to think that maybe all of your advice shouldn't be aimed at her but at me.
 

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well......... the 49 indicate also a status of reflection... when unchanging.

this is the "past and now" situation.... your question are referred to the future....
you must live it at first... and then please report :)

the fact that mostly the Yi refer all answer to us isn't a news.... for example you ask about a problem with X and the Yi answer you about how you will live the situation.
but consider the Yi also refer answers to other people connected with us.
understanding to which are the answer referred is not simple.
so a bilateral strategy in divination is a must... from my point of view.
 

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