Clarity,
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London.
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United Kingdom
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Hi,
However there are certain people who just seem to take a dislike to me - not to my face exactly - but I know instinctively - especially girls who seem strong minded etc.. there seems to be a type I'm noticing anyway.. and I don't know if I annoy them by being 'too' nice and they think I'm just trying to please or what, but recently a certain girl who I have made an effort with and we've had conversations etc but I still get a bad vibe and this has been realised because she left me out of something.
So I asked the I-ching
What is her problem?
And got 44 - Coming to Meet (No moving lines)
Does that mean we just clash - like two bulls coming to meet?
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I think what you say here, underlined, may have a bearing on the problem ? I often find 44 has to do with pushing past others comfort boundaries - or being pushed, in a way that feels too much. Like theres 'coming to meet' but its nice to have a choice to meet or not and in 44 someone might be ignoring someone elses choices. If the question was answered directly, and i have no way of knowing that, then the question 'does she have an issue with me' could indicate the issue she has is that she feels you are being too pushy, even if you are being 'nicely' pushy. You have to decide if thats a possibilty or not.
This is classic. Hilary should feature this somewhere for its irony.
Em Ching, respectfully, your approach here fits 44 to a tee. 44 is marked by a strong sense of entitlement, and indignation toward anything which does not recognize or bend to ones will. This isn't to say it's wrong to feel this way; it actually is the kind of force that can lead toward your goal, and/or make you very unpopular.
Could 'Coming to meet' also be saying that we must accept in this world, that there are certain people who you just can't get on with (maybe it's a chemical or wavelength thing?) because yeah there are some people you take an instant dislike to even if you haven't spoken to them!
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).