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becalm
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Thanks tedoleander......
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Just to clarify for anyone who's interested.
It's the first time I've been in a FWB situationship and it's never something I thought I'd like or could handle because I'm a sensitive emotional kind of person.
Given the other intense stuff going on in my life and the emotionally draining impact it's having on me having a physical outlet like sex would help BUT because of the way he carried on, as spoken about in my previous posts, it was just too much for me mentally and emotionally so I ended things with him.
Seeing another woman at his place yesterday didn't bother me particularly but I could tell he was happy to see me although it felt awkward because I didn't know the dynamic. If it was obvious they were romantic/intimately involved then I wouldn't have been so curious but I probably still would have sent the message to her because it was just over a week ago we were sexually active and if I was in her position I would've wanted to know.
That's just my perspective though maybe she doesn't care. I haven't heard back from her.
While I was writing this post I looked out the window and saw this sunrise. It reminded me what's more important to me in my life. I've been on my own for 12 years, nature has been my saving grace.
It's the first time I've been in a FWB situationship and it's never something I thought I'd like or could handle because I'm a sensitive emotional kind of person.
Given the other intense stuff going on in my life and the emotionally draining impact it's having on me having a physical outlet like sex would help BUT because of the way he carried on, as spoken about in my previous posts, it was just too much for me mentally and emotionally so I ended things with him.
Seeing another woman at his place yesterday didn't bother me particularly but I could tell he was happy to see me although it felt awkward because I didn't know the dynamic. If it was obvious they were romantic/intimately involved then I wouldn't have been so curious but I probably still would have sent the message to her because it was just over a week ago we were sexually active and if I was in her position I would've wanted to know.
That's just my perspective though maybe she doesn't care. I haven't heard back from her.
While I was writing this post I looked out the window and saw this sunrise. It reminded me what's more important to me in my life. I've been on my own for 12 years, nature has been my saving grace.
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Thanks for that.
I can't say for sure at this point (the river has gotten a bit muddy of late), but metaphorically speaking, maybe she is 'already across', and has moved on to other stuff on the 'other side' of her particular physical / emotional / relationship 'river'. And she sees no reason to send messages back over to your side? And maybe that's what is important - and what you need to know about her, and/or their relationship.
And also metaphorically speaking, maybe you have also 'crossed over' your own difficult river, and now that you're on the other side, you can see what worked for you and what didn't - regarding this guy, or about being FWB - and you can now proceed on with your own adventures ....
(PS - my first metaphor is about them; my second one is about you, but that may not be what you were asking about, so you can just ignore it - especially if it doesn't fit.)
Best, D
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becalm
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I appreciate your interpretations and most other peoples. Sometimes it's hard to describe a whole situation when writing text which doesn't always make it easy for others to understand.
I take what resonates with me, think about what may not and disregard what I know just doesn't apply.
There's one person I've had to block so if she's responding on my posts I wouldn't know.
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Well I appreciate that you appreciate some of what I'm saying - I can't ask for more than that!
And I too will ignore this other person - at least regarding your readings - this will be easy, since I don't know who she is or what she's saying to you!
Best, D
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I've become a little anxious FWB man may try to come back into my life. I've blocked his phone number for my own sanity but he obviously knows where I live and it's not far from his house. Even if I say go away his track record is one of dismissing my boundaries.
What is the possibility he will attempt to come back into my life
24.6>27
Line 6 - He doesn't like that it didn't work out so he's going to attempt to sort it out.
What is the possibility he will attempt to come back into my life
24.6>27
Line 6 - He doesn't like that it didn't work out so he's going to attempt to sort it out.
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becalm
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She never did get back to me but he sent me a mixed message hahaha nothing new there.....saying you had no right to send her that message at the same time as complimenting me on something else!!
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diamant
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So it looks like 55.5 meant you'll receive communication (from someone, not necessarily her) which will clarify the issue. Now you know she's definitely siding with him, and sort of passively against you. I find it quite rude of her to not reply to you at all, even if it was just to say 'thanks but no thanks'.
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becalm
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Maybe, but she doesn't owe me anything and I didn't need a response.
He and I swapped a couple of texts last night and he said he's grateful we're at least on speaking terms - maybe thats the 'reward' of Line 5. I don't dislike the man, just his behaviours.