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chucklesthegirl

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Hi all,

Last night I was participating in an online forum where I chit chat with people all over the country about politics. It is a melting pot of political philosophies and I enjoy everyone's refreshing ideas.

Well, last night things got ugly when one person started a thread about how "hot" he thinks I am. I was flattered and thanked him for the compliment.
Then, two individuals (who I had had a previous run in with) proceeded to announce to everyone that I am ugly and fat and that they have stolen pictures of me and my child and were posting them everywhere to prove just how ugly I am.

Pretty childish stuff, right? I dismissed it as people just being stupid and ignored it.

Then, one of the individuals began making death threats towards me and a friend of mine and insulting my child.

It got way out of hand.

A person who I had mentioned in a previous thread (a friend who was angry with me following a failed romantic liaison) is also in that group and I was beginning to wonder if he gave these guys my pictures and was spreading false accusations about me.

It's really silly but the threats had me shaken up.

I did a number of readings about this and this is what I received for my answers. Please excuse my over abundance and repetition of some of the questions in these readings, I was just shaken up about it and sought comfort in Yi's wisdom.

"X" is the former friend who is still angry with me.

what is the reason behind those two guys bullying me?
hex 4.4.5.6
hex 47

was X involved in it?
hex 45.3.4
hex 39

what was X's role in all of that?
hex 42.2
hex 62

do i have reason to be afraid?
hex 50.1
hex 14

what are X's feelings for me?
hex 45.1.5.6
hex 21

what does X want from me?
hex 6.2
hex 12

should i leave the group?
hex 45.2.4
hex 29


Any and all help will be most appreciative.

I am still learning and will start providing input to other threads as soon as I feel more comfortable with interpreting the results. I have only been consulting the I Ching for a couple of months now and am still a bit green when it comes to putting the two hexagrams together for a complete answer.

Thank you.
:bows:
 

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what is the reason behind those two guys bullying me?
hex 4.4.5.6
hex 47

***This suggests it was all down to childish behaviour to make you upset, bullies taut.

was X involved in it?
hex 45.3.4
hex 39

***Yes.

what was X's role in all of that?
hex 42.2
hex 62


***I assume he was egging them on.

do i have reason to be afraid?
hex 50.1
hex 14

***You don't have to worry about silly little boys.

what are X's feelings for me?
hex 45.1.5.6
hex 21

I reckon he's miffed and just wants to get even.

what does X want from me?
hex 6.2
hex 12

He's looking for a row.

should i leave the group?
hex 45.2.4
hex 29

No.
 

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Thank you, WillowFox. I am so tired of these guys behaving like psycho babies. This is getting to be too much.
I have tried to be friendly towards "X" but he remains firm in his hostility towards me.
Just not sure why he is being that way.
Once again, thank you!
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It truly is, Frank. It is getting really ugly over here in the US and to make things worse, this group I belong to is primarily people opposed to Obama and universal health care. A few of the people have gone so far as to say they want to kill the census workers to prevent anymore government interference in their lives.

It's just sick. I try to keep an open mind about things, but violence is not the answer. Thank goodness for spirituality otherwise i would feel sick to my stomach over all this ruckus and craziness going on.
 

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I just did a reading about how to deal with "X":

what is the best way to approach this situation with X?
hex 64.5
hex 6

Maybe if I just ignore him things will eventually die down....trouble is that they just still haven't calmed down, they seem to be getting worse.
Problem is, I don't want to fight him. All I want is resolution and peace.
 

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I just did a reading about how to deal with "X":

what is the best way to approach this situation with X?
hex 64.5
hex 6

Don't take any notice of the guy and his spiteful ways, rise above the drama and don't let yourself get drawn into the "game", do not engage him or his "pals" in conversation of any kind. When you answer, it is like throwing food to the trolls, it just makes them even more eager to get dirty and nasty.

Therefore, don't leave the site, but don't feed the trolls anymore, starve them out because without he few willing victims they will die.
 

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Thank you once again, WillowFox. That's exactly what I will do.

Hopefully all be be quiet again and he and his friends will leave me alone.

Thank you very much once again for everyone's input. I have been studying the Memorizing the I Ching threads and I hope to offer input to other members readings as well. :)

Namaste
 

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Chuckles

Death threats might be something to turn over to the police. Probably nothing to them, but they would be alerted anyway. I suspect you are not in any danger, but this is serious even if they are just fooling around. Sooner or later they need to realize this is not tolerable.

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Chuckles

Death threats might be something to turn over to the police. Probably nothing to them, but they would be alerted anyway. I suspect you are not in any danger, but this is serious even if they are just fooling around. Sooner or later they need to realize this is not tolerable.

Gene

Gene is absolutely right. Death threats are not tolerable and it would be better to inform the police.
 

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I am considering doing it. The guys who were making the threats live in another state so I am not sure if the police would take me seriously or not. I have a print screen capture of the threats and harassment.

I asked Yi this morning if the ring leader "X" felt bad about what happened, and I got 29.3>48

When this all happened, I told these creeps that if they didn't stop I would get the law involved. This seems like overkill to me. We had one date and afterward, he told me he was not interested in me so I just tried to be his friend.
No idea why he would do this to me if he was not interested, other than he is angry with me or he lied about not having feelings for me.

I asked Yi if they were scared off by my threatening legal action and I got 56.1.4>22

So far, all three of these guys have been really quiet since this happened.

I followed Willowfox's advice and have remained in the group but haven't participated as much or paid any attention to anything these guys say.

Honestly, I have no idea why he would get these guys to harass me and my child like this. They claimed to have a bunch of pictures of me and my daughter.

It's had me really upset for the last two days. Anything that involves threats to me or my child upsets me. All I want is peace and to not have my privacy invaded.

It's all so ridiculous that I don't understand it.
 

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I don't think he felt bad in the slightest but being trolls they are probably a little worried that you have the evidence copied and can show the police if needed. What they don't realize is that the police will see the game for what it is and do nothing.

Anyway, follow my advice and stop feeding these 3 trolls by simply refusing to have any communications with them, like I said before, if you stop talking to them then the games over.

As for the cops, they want to see bodies before they will take action. They are out of state, so ignore the brain dead.
 

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Thank you, Willowfox. I am staying away from that group entirely. I have not left the site but I am not going near it.

It's just too much nonsense and definitely not worth the headache.
 

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I wanted to give an update on the situation.

The trolls have backed off and the harassment has stopped. The person who runs the group had a firm talk with these hooligans and told them that if they didn't stop that I had every intention of reporting them to their ISP's.

"X" seems to have calmed down, but i am still not giving him any chances to start an argument with me.

I asked the Yi this morning if "X" understands that I have no desire to have any contact with him and received hex 6.2.5.6>16 as my response.

I assume this is an enthusiastic (the resulting hex 16) yes.

Anyway, I wanted to thank you all for helping me with this and for your concerns for my safety with these guys.

:bows:
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I asked the Yi this morning if "X" understands that I have no desire to have any contact with him and received hex 6.2.5.6>16


It seems that he has understood the message at least for now, but always be on the look out, in case they make a new movie called, "X returns from dead".
 

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Thank you, Willowfox!
:rofl: I will certainly keep an eye out for any signs that "X" will make a new appearance. If he does I will certainly speak up about it until he goes away.

Now that I understand that the primary and resulting hexagrams can be read side by side instead of the resulting hexagram always indicating the future of the situation, it is easier to give an interpretation.

This mess has actually helped me to improve on my I Ching interpretation skills so it's hasn't been a complete loss.
Gotta turn my lemons into lemonade somehow.

Cheers!
 

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Hey

I assume they backed off otherwise you, would have updated more

Thanks for the update, thats what I want no contact

Steve
 

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