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Thank you. So my biggest fear would be being shamed. Correct?19.3
People seem to have a lot of influence on how you feel about yourself. You kinda tend to stay in the comfort zone and never question if the decisions that you make are good for you first and foremost because you're basically not the one who makes them. Therefore, whenever something goes awry you shift the blame onto them so you don't take any responsability. "Hell is other people" is the best way to describe this line, IMHO.
According to the fan yao (11.3) you should dedicate yourself to improve your inner life and then you see the results in the external world, sonner or later. Don't rush ahead either: enjoy the process and everything that life has to offer.
This line to me seems to speak to false confidence. Perhaps you fear the discomfort of being exactly yourself.Many problems, trouble with others, defensiveness making life pretty much constante suffering. Wanting to tackle the problem, I asked, "what is my biggest fear? "
Death, I thought to myself as I casted the reading. Can't sweet talk yourself out of it. Any help, please?
But the fan yao is not the answer. One wouldn't be aiming to act, in any reading, according to the fan yao and that was never what Brad Hatcher who coined the term intended it to be used for. Unfortunately many people seem to use it as if it were the actual answer. It's a reflection of the answer but it is not to be taken as direct advice, in place of the answer, at all. If it were then 11.3 would have been cast not 19.3.According to the fan yao (11.3) you should dedicate yourself to improve your inner life and then you see the results in the external world, sonner or later. Don't rush ahead either: enjoy the process and everything that life has to offer.
I think Yi is questioning your own view of what you see as your problem, I'd think you'd maybe need to reframe your perception of 'the problem' , maybe it isn't about fear as such at all?Many problems, trouble with others, defensiveness making life pretty much constante suffering. Wanting to tackle the problem, I asked, "what is my biggest fear? "
According to the fan yao (11.3) you should ...
It's indeed not the answer. However, it helps one to interpret it. At least that's what works for me.But the fan yao is not the answer. One wouldn't be aiming to act, in any reading, according to the fan yao and that was never what Brad Hatcher who coined the term intended it to be used for. Unfortunately many people seem to use it as if it were the actual answer. It's a reflection of the answer but it is not to be taken as direct advice, in place of the answer, at all. If it were then 11.3 would have been cast not 19.3.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).