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Breaking a cycle - Hexagram 43.5.6

eleven11

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Hi, I am going through a break up and needed guidance to understand why I am repeating the same patterns of emotional co-dependence when things start going wrong. I asked the I Ching why am I in the same position again, desperately unhappy in my relationship and ultimately lonely, what am I to learn from this. I got Hexagram 43.5.6 changing to 14. I am unclear as to what 'evil' I should overthrow and how. Am I to take from this that I must cut all contact with this person, or examine my relationship with men and get to the bottom of why I get into these destructive relationships.These are confusing time for me and any suggestion would be of help. Thanks
 

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sorry to hear, breakups are sucky :(

when you say you are 'going through a break up' do you mean you've broken up with this fella and you are now going through the post-break-up blues, or do you mean, you are actually dragging out this break-up because you are not sure you actually do want to break up?

I ask because 43.5 is about resolute action to get rid of evil as it were and it must be done without delay. Have you checked Lise's website? I always go there for relationship readings:
http://www.yijing.nl/i_ching/index.html
 

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No, the break up is done, I have moved out and going through hell as I am getting my life back, we have seen each other a few time briefly and this, I guess, is not helping. Must check out this link, thank you
 

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I would say that the yi is answering your question about relationships in general as that was where your question lies. Although that does encompass this relationship too, just not specifically.

Do you find you let things slide too much? Like he'll start by doing something slightly disrespectful but you don't want to nag so you let it go but next time it's worse until they're treating you with utter contempt and you don't know where it came from. I see 43.5 as saying you need to weed these things out early before they take over the blossoming of a healthy relationship. And 43.6 warns against sitting on laurels. Just because you've said it once and it worked doesn't mean the issue won't come up again. You need to be a constant gardener ;)

43 to 14 is a nice reading though. Breakthrough leading to great things. Looks like you'll break the pattern. :)
 

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