Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Hello, a friend repeatedly invited me to visit him so I bought an expensive air ticket (despite having many doubts myself). After I bought the ticket, he started being colder, we had a discussion and we decided it was better for me to not go, but it was mostly him who - surprisingly - changed his mind. I expressed my disappointment, he apologized and we have not talked since.
I have asked the I Ching:
Is there any chance for us to ever talk again? 11.3 > 19
Is it possible that he will want to get in touch and us to be friends again, despite my NO contact, please? 2.1 > 24
Is he really going to send written explanations/apologies, as he said he would? 6.1,3,5 > 14
Is he seeing someone? 28.2,5
(interestingly, he is younger than me, as in the I Ching's answer here... and he told me he went out for drinks with another woman, one of the reasons I assumed he did not want me to visit him anymore
Is there still potential for a romance? (besides developing a close friendship, there was a mutual attraction) 58 unchanging
The answers seem contradictory to me, so I would like to hear your opinion about possible interpretations.
So, after reading again Hilary's and your suggestions, I have asked these questions today, trying to correct my previous confusing questions. Hopefully these are more definite and the answers seem more clear to me.
Is there still a potential for a relation here? 60.5 > 19
How does he see the situation? 36.6 > 22
What is the best attitude to take to this situation? 10.2,3,4 > 37
I did not find the answers very encouraging in terms of "and they were friends happily again", so I've asked a last question - which I know is silly from my part (but I did ask anyway ):
Will I ever hear back from him? 25.5 > 21
It is interesting how you interpreted the 36 > 22. I can see that as going from extreme light to extreme darkness quickly and change your mind unexpectedly. However, he seems a fairly balanced person, structured and even a bit too rational, I would say, so I am not sure. Could it be that he was a bit naive and daydreaming about this whole story, and then suddenly landed back on earth/reality?
He is a flesh and blood person that I met in the real world, and we had the pleasure to spend some time together as good friends and compatible people. He moved abroad for work and asked me to visit him.
In conclusion, I guess you are suggesting that there is still a margin of reciprocal understanding and that a friendly relation may be restored (I am not interested in more than that). But again, it does not feel right for me to take any steps in that direction, nor the I Ching suggests that I should, right?
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).