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I forgot to mention that in this case the calamity or disaster could be just a big opportunity missed from not being where the time demanded.
From the hip: The time comes when we feel we've had enough.
Staying together an excessively long time is actually a good thing.
So the shake up of 55 is necessary, but you don't necessarily want to fry the relationship.
I forgot to mention that in this case the calamity or disaster could be just a big opportunity missed from not being where the time demanded.
So, all kinds of treading, moving ever closer to the Tiger in lines 1 through 4, but excluding line 5, where you have a definite aim and go for it. So you are engaged in all forms of treading around something dangerous and powerful, and perhaps for most relationships, this amount of treading carefully becomes difficult to sustain.I asked: "What is the reason husband+wife have to move after a complete cycle of time?"
Got 10.1.2.3.4.6 > 53
Only line not moving is line 5.
H53 pertains to our marriage, I think, the stages it has gone through and will go through.
Everything has a timeframe. Hendricks wrote a good book about this...I think it was called 5 Questions That Can Change Your life.
Could be the issue is delaying.
From my reading today in A Course in Miracles: 'Given a change of purpose for the good, there is no reason for an interval in which disaster strikes, to be perceived as "good" some day but now in form of pain. This is a sacrifice of now . . .'
The pain struck in the form of a severe low back pain and I actually am having trouble walking at all. One day I was fine. The next day I was using a cane.
Since I had already chosen to do spiritual work, perhaps I might concern myself more with how to actually do that instead of trying to accomplish things that are now physically impossible.
..to cultivate a relationship to the fullest in the years when it still makes a difference or can be fully enjoyed.
hi Ginnie,
). 55.1 seems like a meeting that succeeds because of the sameness of status and the common goals that are in full force . . kind of like the 'honeymoon' period maybe? (and it could be that relationships have more-than-one such periods that follow different timescales so this could take 10 days/weeks/months/years but it's always a phase that can not be maintained for ever)
. . what happens after that is 62, with all its attention to detail, it reminds me of micro-chiseling, fine-tuning . . it could be then that the flow of dynamics shifts from outer to inner, from the go-getting, broad-lined, comfortable settings of 55 to that of streamlining and more subtly tuned in existence of 62 . . common goals get replaced by common roads (where it's ok if you get distracted looking out of the window for a while, or choose to take a slower rhythm since the marching band has stopped and it's more about the subdued but keener signs that determine the gait . .)
people of equal rank maybe turn into people of equal breath who agree because they beat like wings to an internal sameness rather than because they feed on the same external sources and exhibit a similarity of qualities . . could it be that this is what happens in passing from the exuberance of 55 to the silent momentum of 62? . .
just brain storming here . . would love to hear some feedback, good or bad it doesn't matter, I'm just wondering if this line of thought could stand . . or not!
I forgot to mention that in this case the calamity or disaster could be just a big opportunity missed from not being where the time demanded.
werent you a kid who didnt like school? self-made , self taught
That first Med cruise turned about to be memorable and educational for a 17 year old sailor. Only a very short while ago I was a nobody and a loser, in a world of smarter, bigger and more important people. Now, suddenly I’m at the helm of a U.S. Navy amphibious war ship, or coxoning a 9 ton LCVP landing craft.
Then, there was the ‘other education’. All I had known of sex while growing up in the US in the early 60’s was that sex was something one had to hide, and most especially for the girls and women. Now, here I am, strolling leisurely along the French Riviera. Never have I been much of a sports spectator, but volley ball took on a whole new level of significance that day.
Ginnie to backtrack to this comment, i think it may be very relevant to your situation ? If i think back to my own experiences with 55.1 I could definately see it as a 'don't miss this opportunity' because i think 55.1 is about a valuable time . I'm forgetting what it is exactly you asked about your marriage but could it be reminding you you have specific opportunities in your relationship now that won't always be there..?
If options don't exist, it's a good time to possibly consider them. If people are together it should be because they mutually want to be together, not because there's no way out.
So the shake up of 55 is necessary, but you don't necessarily want to fry the relationship.
yes 55.1 as a window of opportunity, i'd not seen it that way before, it certainly makes sense
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).