Change and What He Wants...

[justa]

Hello Guys,

Last week things turned a corner with my crush and we had a friendly coffee. I sensed a change in him and got the vibe that he really likes me! I will be seeing him tomorrow and consulted the oracle regarding a clear picture of any change I could expect between us and recieved Hex 27 lines 1/5/6 to hex 8.
Then I asked what he wanted from me and recieved Hex 53 lines1/3/4/5/6 changing to 51.
I see this as a good omen. But am unclear especially concerning 53 to 51! Please help anyone.
thank you
Justa

 

[rosada]

27 is Nourishment and the guidance is to watch what a person nourishes themselves with - wholesome ideas or junk food? - and also to be careful what you let come into your consciousness and then to watch what you say - what you are nourishing others with. I'd make a point of nourishing yourself by watching some love story video tonight to have your unconscious geared to see the love potential in your meeting tomorrow! And 27 says specifically to be careful of what you say so maybe have a few good jokes to share and not the time to discuss your darker psychological hang ups.
While 8 is called Union, it is actually a warning that you and the people around you or the situation are not a perfect match. The previous hexagram, 7. The Army, more discribes the perfect match, the perfect alignment where all parties are focused on the same goal. But hey, there's no romance in that. 7 would be like dating your brother. So 8 is saying, Okay, you're meeting up with someone who is not One with you. You have similarities, but you also have differances. Think of a neighbor. Your land flows right into his land so you do unite, but Good fences make good neighbors. You have to recognize and respect boundries. So I think I Ching is telling you that at your next date you are having a chance to get to know each other a bit better, to see where you connect.
53 > 51 further warns that we don't know how far this Progress will go. You may learn something about him that suddenly makes him totally unexceptable - like maybe he doesn't believe in the I Ching ! So I think you are being cautioned to meet your friend and watch for what you have in common and where the commonality stops. If you don't try to go to far too fast it should be a good time!
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