Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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goddessliss
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Sorry that should read 12>20
I am sick of the continued lack of get togethers of my sons and I since my divorce and family breakdown. The last time we were properly together as a family and quality time was 2010. We all have constant contact via social media or phone calls and although we've had our moments over the last 6 years or so things between us all are the best they've ever been.
However I'm sick of us not coming together as a family and enjoying some real quality time and I've let them know - two of my sons are keen to come but not sure about the third and to be honest if it's only for a day or two then it's hardly worth it as everyone is so tired from their busy lives and a lot of time is spent sleeping.
I'm aware I can't make them come nor do I want to force them but there's no harm in telling them how I feel just as I'd expect they'd tell me.
What is the potential it will be a full family gathering on Christmas Day this year
12.4>20
Well this looks promising to me. Part of it is because I feel we cannot create a new history away from the awful last couple of years of the family breakdown which I know my two youngest boys still have in the back of their mind. So to move on and create a new happy history I believe we need to come together to do that.
In the last 4 years two grandchildren have been born which makes my two youngest sons, uncles, my youngest son hasn't even met his niece who is now nearly 18 months old.
I am sick of the continued lack of get togethers of my sons and I since my divorce and family breakdown. The last time we were properly together as a family and quality time was 2010. We all have constant contact via social media or phone calls and although we've had our moments over the last 6 years or so things between us all are the best they've ever been.
However I'm sick of us not coming together as a family and enjoying some real quality time and I've let them know - two of my sons are keen to come but not sure about the third and to be honest if it's only for a day or two then it's hardly worth it as everyone is so tired from their busy lives and a lot of time is spent sleeping.
I'm aware I can't make them come nor do I want to force them but there's no harm in telling them how I feel just as I'd expect they'd tell me.
What is the potential it will be a full family gathering on Christmas Day this year
12.4>20
Well this looks promising to me. Part of it is because I feel we cannot create a new history away from the awful last couple of years of the family breakdown which I know my two youngest boys still have in the back of their mind. So to move on and create a new happy history I believe we need to come together to do that.
In the last 4 years two grandchildren have been born which makes my two youngest sons, uncles, my youngest son hasn't even met his niece who is now nearly 18 months old.
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