Clarity on Hexagram 44.4.6 to 48 Please?

[soulution121]

So I asked this question a month ago but I am still not sure about it.

Something is coming up to look at things from a different angle.

Look at things from the positive and the abundance state but to be aware of things to look out for to avoid.

So I asked what kind of relationship am I creating with K?

44.4.6 changing to 48.

What do people about no fish in the tank? Does it mean? Is it to do with creativity? Fertility? To avoid people who are not good for me?

In all honesty, hexagram 44 meant a lot to me. It lead me to the love of my life and believe it or not the hexagram I got for my soulmate was 44.5.6 leading to 32. That hexagram was clearly suggesting marriage. I did not head it, I misinterpreted it as not marrying her but 32 encourages commitment and longevity. She was incredibly powerful... She did not want to be seized and I didn't want to seize her but yield to her and share our power.

My biggest regret was not following my feelings and using my head to justify to avoid commitment and true intimacy. When they time came when it was clear to me I wanted to commit to her, I wanted her more than anything. She died in the most tragic of circumstances!

As painful that experience was, I know for once in my life what it is to "be in love". And that is such a gift.

This time round, I ask for help in understanding.

I feel oracle is telling me, yield and let her come to me, trust in the divine plan. But what things should I be weary of this time?

The well does sound to me to reach in to the depth of my own being, to be nourished by the power of my own heart and spirit, and share it with another.

I feel this is the year of abundance for me... So I am trusting my guides.

What are your thoughts friends? Lend me your eyes please?

Much Love

H

 

[Trojina]

You have posted the same question with the same answer here before haven't you?

Wondering why you are posting it a second time ? Will link from the other so it's clear

What kind of relationship will I create with K G? 44 - 48

So I asked the oracle the above question and I got hexagram 44 changing to 48. I had a sense when I met this woman there might be something between us. She is in a relationship with someone else and I am still moving through the grief of my late partner, even though I feel I moving through that...

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So I asked what kind of relationship am I creating with K?

44.4.6>48 is a cast to think about for sure.

My questions would be 'how long have you known her?' and 'in what context do you know her/did you find her?'.

I currently see 48 as the 'pool' as it were from which you pulled her, which sounds a bit crude but you catch my drift. Then there's the 'no fish' in 44.4.

So it's striking me, though as yet I know nothing of the situation, that she was drawn from a Well of potential mates? Makes me think online dating ? It's just the 48 there really point to the resource/place/context that 'offered up' this woman to you.

And can you trust it? Is this a 'good catch' you have? Frankly it doesn't look like it. You have 44 saying not to marry, that is not to try to make her a part of your life

'Coupling, the woman is powerful.
No use to take the woman.'

Well there it is, can't get more direct than that. This is often someone or something that may appeal a great deal but just isn't something to bring into your daily world. Although it may enliven or inspire your world you cannot 'marry' it.

The Image says

'Below heaven is the wind. Coupling.
The crown prince gives out orders to command the four corners of the earth.'

My wiki entry on that says

Any announcement whether it is from a loud speaker on a train station or a phone call where news is given (43) disrupts the previous status quo, something changes, is directed or altered. 43 is the changing of the course of things through announcement and 44 the impact of that. This works the other way around too in that disruption (44) causes announcement (43) 'this train is running late' as announcement (43) causes disruption of plans(44). Trojina

So she's made an impact on you but with this cast I think you'd be well advised to take it slow and get to know what's really on offer and what isn't. To me it doesn't look like there is anything on offer from this person. If that doesn't tally with your experience well you can dismiss that thought of course but there's line 4

'In the basket, no fish.
Rising up, pitfall.'

Doesn't appear to be much connection here. It's said that 'sparks fly' when you meet 'the one' well here it's like the opposite of that, sparks are not sparking.

Line 6

'Coupling, your horns.
Shame.
Not a mistake.'

I find this is often where someone really gets into something to find out what it is about, so you go into something, a relationship, a situation fully intent on meeting it to the point of almost being brash or forcing the pace of 'getting to know'. You force the pace of 'getting to know' and there's shame, you may not want what you find in the end, you may reject it.

I also had the idea that the 44 was here sort of pointing at the 48 as potentially a questionable or dubious kind of a Well. Dubious is too strong word but in any case I just think this cast is asking you a question about the background of this, where it came from? Or I should say 'where did she appear from?' . Do you know her background well?

Change patterns are 35 and 5 and I think maybe this came in a bit quicker than the time needed to 'get to know'.

You know the actualities of this, I don't, I'm only going on impressions from the cast so you will have see what fits from this and none of it may but those are my thoughts. In any case however I look at this it's not a picture of 'happy ever after' as it doesn't look like it has even really begun ?

In answer to your question then about what kind of relationship you are creating with this person I do not see that you are creating one. I don't think this person will appeal to you long term.