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Desde hace dos meses me gusta alguien, es un profesor de un curso de artes y tuvimos un encuentro vía Zoom. A él le gustaron mucho mis artes y lo vi realmente conmovida y admirada Eso me causó gran alegría, enamoramiento y me sentí correspondida, pero luego de esa reunión el dijo que debía seguir trabajando y mostrando mis pinturas en una exposición, pues tenia oro en mis manos, le pedí que me guiara, el dijo que podía ser... Sentí que hubo un click entre los dos. El debía enviarme la grabación de nuestra reunión, pero no lo hizo. Se lo he pedido en dos oportunidades y no la ha enviado. Para mi es importante la grabación pues allí me da sus opiniones, que son muy buenas. Le pregunté a Yi cual era la situación entre los dos y conestó '31.3.6 a 12 Me quedé desconcertada y pensé que hubo algo como una chispa de ilusion entre los dos, pero luego se bloqueo. Quizas no debí insistir en que me enviara la grabación de nuestra charla. Y ahora todo está bloqueado entre los dos. Me encantaría algún comentario de ustedes, que me ayudara a esclarecer su actitud. Me parece que Yi me dice 31.3 que fui demasiado insistente y que no debo seguir esperando algo de él. Y 31.6 que no hay nada real allí y solo fueron palabras y por lo cual yo me ilusioné. Otra opción es que a él le dio verguenza haber mostrado sus sentimientos y que eso pasara pronto si dejo de pensar en seguir insistiéndole. Gracias por algún aporte que me ayude a comprender mejor.
 

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It's a perhaps unfortuanate fact that most - though not all - of us are English speakers here. Therefore, I suggest that you might try a Google or Bing Spanish-to-English translation.

As in: Quizás sea un hecho desafortunado que la mayoría, aunque no todos, de nosotros aquí hablamos inglés. Por lo tanto, le sugiero que pruebe una traducción de español a inglés de Google o Bing.
 

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I would interpret that the man is both very interested and very ashamed due to the evident power dynamic and scandalous nature of the coupling. Yet cupid's arrows hit their mark all the same. The approaching standstill should not be surprising. When you are at one with loss, the loss it experienced willingly. Of course this is going to become a will-they-won't-they soap opera romance and therefore unlikely to resolve itself any time soon.

Your best course of action is non-action. Go with the flow. Maybe there is an awkward moment during a social gathering where an innocent arrangement outside is made, or maybe no real move is made until graduation. This can all be playful with an attitude of acceptance - receptivity to experience. Be independent of this one specific outcome so you don't miss a possible romance elsewhere.

A subtle flirt here and there couldn't hurt your chances. In this circumstance you do not want an immediate fiery passion - as the equal opposite reaction can cause an equally dramatic fall - suddenly the man you're infatuated with becomes the target of wrath and in that state of mind we pull no punches. He could lose not only lose his job but his reputation.

Play the long game. The flame is lit only to an embers. Gentle fanning motions sustain the fire at just the right level. Bring it up over a length of time.

Notes of the same key respond to one another;
Odors of the same nature merge together.
Water flows toward what is wet,
Fire rises toward what is dry.
Clouds follow dragons;
Winds follow tigers.
Whatever the superior person does, it can be perceived by all beings.
Those who draw their origin from Heaven move toward what is above;
Those who drag their origin from Earth cleave to what is below.
All beings follow their own kind.


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[13.3] He hides weapons in the thicket; he climbs the high hill in front of it. For three years he does not rise up.

Ready to strike but uncertain. Hides his longsword in the forests. Peeks over the hill to better assess situation.

[13.6] Fellowship with men in the meadow. No remorse.

Power dynamic is illusory. He is not a king, lord, duke, etc. He is just a fellow adult working a job - and a fellow creative at that. There should be no remorse when attempts at union are made amongst peers. The caveat being that it is done in the open, and no attempts at secrecy are made. Would be be prudent to flirt openly so both students and staff are aware. This also creates an environment of giggling children (innocence) which is superior to that of secrecy and deceit.
 
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