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tealight

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I really would appreciate any insights about this result.

It's about an online friendship, which may develop into something more, nothing has been said yet, on either side, but I've been given certain signs that it could develop in this direction.

I like him very much, but am unsure if a relationship would be right for me, or for him, or how soon, etc. But I'm not closed to the idea, it just depends on things I don't know yet. But my main concern is being sensitive to his feelings, I don't want him to be hurt either way and I feel I have to handle this carefully, because I think he has been hurt in the past.

I consulted the I Ching, here is the question I asked:
"What is the best way for me to handle this for his ultimate happiness?"

So I got 20 > 15.

The reading for 20 overall seems to make sense as an answer, although it is quite open-ended, but at least it's not signalling any drastic changes or anything.

But can someone tell me how they would read the progression of the lines, and then the resulting hex, 15?

Also, I asked a question early in the summer, not long after we started corresponding, I got hex 15 for that resulting hex as well. That question was:
"What is the potential for this developing into a genuine long-term friendship?" (not ruling out relationship, but obviously we'd have to be friends first).
That result was 46 > 15.

Maybe just coincidence that they both led to 15? Any comments would be appreciated.
 

literunner

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Hi tealight,

20 > 15 seems to be advising you to think about what is realistic in terms of this relationship now and what you do ultimately want from it. Since you say you are not sure what you want, the Yi could be advising to figure some of those things out and what would be most realistic for your life now.
20.3.5.6 changes to 15 and those lines are about moving ahead gradually when you know it is the right time for you, thinking about who you are, who you want to be and what a new relationship could mean for you and to consider what you want out of the union before acting.
Being realistic about it all too, since it's an online relationship and you've not met - which would have to happen to know more what you want.
I think that is reflected in the 46.2 to 15 reading as well - to be sincere and keep things small and realistic now until you develop more of an in-person relationship. Offer what you can, what would mean something authentic to you and it will be a step in the right direction, even if it feels small at the moment.

Hope that helps, let us know how it goes.
LR :bows:
 

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