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To explain this stupid situation you need to look at how many times you have done this type of thing before and ask yourself what is making you behave in this way.please explain this stupid situation i've created and what if anything I can do about it?
42.1.4 > 48
You decided to get in touch in order so it wouldn't seem like a dark hole you can't get to.trying to neutralise my feelings so it's not like the sort of dark inaccessible hole I can't get to.
43 talks to you of making a breakthrough through building your character. All the things you spoke about before in post #3 are still good things to be doing and mindsets to have.oooh, you're right. it was 43.1.4 - 48....
so then that would be
43.1 i acted prematurely
43.4 things are tricky now but they may work out ok if i am patient?
the well - draw on my inner resources 48 to sustain myself through it..
Well i gues let's both wait and see! And we'll maybe have a bit more clarity when some time has passed and events have or have not happened : )I had this exact reading a few days ago and I don't understand mine, either.
17 usually means just follow along, don't try to take the lead or figure out "why." (17's pair and opposite is 18, which is the one that's about finding the causes of things. 17 is exactly not that.)
12 has you wading through thick treacle up to your waist and calls for you to reverse the direction of your current thoughts and actions. 17 advises you that the best thing to do is turn towards the peace that you will find in your inner world. Maybe just go with the flow. Although this may not be easy for you, it is something to try as it will allow you, in time, to recuperate and to find a place of respite. Increase you contemplative moments as this will boost your strength of character and subsequently the negative thoughts you are having will slowly dissolve.Please advise what to do about x?
17.1 - maybe this is me moving on and joining with other people, maybe him too, so the need is no longer there? Or as an action this is the advice, which is kind of what I'm doing
17.6 - not sure...the inner work I am doing?
12 - blocked - makes sense, very blocked communication for some reason.
Ok, thanks. I guess what's the change I want, for things to be easy and with no hard feelings? So maybe I just need to enact that in myself somehow and move on truly?? Or just be at peace maybe is more accurate, be at peace with whatever outcome and stop trying to control things or make them be a certain way. I see what you mean about dovetailing 40>32/// what is strange to me is I did nothing between this reading and the more urgent 17>12 - but perhaps its just referring to my inner state more than anything else since nothing else happened on my part, aside from the text he sent and then unsent.12 has you wading through thick treacle up to your waist and calls for you to reverse the direction of your current thoughts and actions. 17 advises you that the best thing to do is turn towards the peace that you will find in your inner world. Maybe just go with the flow. Although this may not be easy for you, it is something to try as it will allow you, in time, to recuperate and to find a place of respite. Increase you contemplative moments as this will boost your strength of character and subsequently the negative thoughts you are having will slowly dissolve.
17.1 - Be the change you want to see.
17.6 - Things are culminating here with you being severely tied up. You need to really consider how best to disentangle yourself from all this. Remember though, it will take time for you to find the peaceful solutions you are truly seeking.
This reading seems to dovetail nicely into the 40 <> 32 that you had before. Although 17<>12 seems to carry a bit more urgency for you to take notice.
...or it might mean nothing at all like this for you.
Good Luck
42.1.4> 64 NOT 48. I have disregarded the following comments - ALL wrong!Hi all,
Asked an ex if they wanted to meet for a coffee (first time since breaking - not a long relationship 1 month and it's been about 6 weeks since we saw each other). Slightly an experiment for me, I know this person socially and am scared I'll bump into them and it'll be super awkward, also just basically trying to neutralise my feelings so it's not like the sort of dark inaccessible hole I can't get to. So I asked today if he'd be up for meeting just to say hi, and he said yes to a coffee, and then I said ok cool that works - the messages have gone quiet (I guess I could have said, great well let me know when you're better and free or something since he is ill at the moment) - so we haven't sort of ended conclusively (he didn't, for example say, ok I'll be in touch when I'm better again or anything like that).
Anyway, I am in a panic now because his lack of response has made me question why are we meeting, is this just a stupid idea - what really are my motivations and would it not have been better to have just bumped into one another? It feels a bit cold on his side, like sure, if you want to meet we can but I'm not so fussed. Have I not made something that was healing itself way worse with my sort of desire to connect even though maybe it was better to just let things be and we'd see each other again when the time was right if at all. I was getting very mixed readings for iching in advance of making the suggestion so nothing was clear but the last one was abundance 55 so i thought oh well, I'll just send the message. My fear is that I am really meaningless to him and it'll actually hurt to meet rather than be helpful or nice.
So now I am doubting and regretting the whole idea of suggesting meeting and I asked:
please explain this stupid situation i've created and what if anything I can do about it?
42.1.4 > 48
41.1 - going on without control leads to mistakes (this might refer to me reaching out because I'd heard he was ill? not really just waiting and then asking or something - or just leaving it alone. Or it is advice for me now to just chill, he'll reach out if he wants to). Another interpretation says just that I was premature in my action...(of asking??)
42.4 - chill out, wait, he will respond in his own time when he's feeling better. in the mean time get on with life
aah, please advise! Or if you think there's some other question I need/could ask.
L
scared I'll bump into them and it'll be super awkward
trying to neutralise my feelings so it's not like the sort of dark inaccessible hole I can't get to.
Hilary Translation: Vigour in the leading foot. Going on without control means making mistakes.
Hilary Commentary: You're eager to cross the line and prove yourself, and bring about much needed change. However, this doesn't mean you can sustain the journey your feet are itching to take. Your desire to get underway needs to be matched by a broader awareness - and some control - of where you're going.
Hilary Translation: Thighs without flesh, Moving awkwardly now. Lead a sheep on a rope, regrets vanish. Hear words, no trust.
Hilary Commentary(abridged): Rather than talking about it, it's better simply to let your actions speak, like the man who leads out a sheep to show his surrender. Regrets vanish when, instead of fighting the present reality, you go to meet it with acceptance. This truly demonstrates resolve.
56 is just a temporary affair, the traveller has places to go so makes sure that wherever they go to keep matters clear and to the point and not drag them out.Ok so shall I clarify or leave it
56.5.6 - 31
Legge Translation: The superior man exerts cautious wisdom in his punishments, and does not permit prolonged litigation.
Blofeld Translation: The Superior Man employs wise caution in administering punishments and does not suffer the cases brought before him to be delayed.
Liu Translation: The superior man is careful and clever in imposing punishments, and does not delay the cases brought.
Hilary Translation: The noble one is clear and thoughtful in administering punishments, and does not drag out legal proceedings
Wilhelm Translation: He shoots a pheasant. It drops with the first arrow. In the end this brings both praise and office
Yes. Don't drag it out, clarify, give it a shot you'll probably get what you're after.Hilary Commentary (abridged): it does mean you have useful work to do. This is the time to be as direct as an arrows flight: see what is needed that you can do, and be single-minded in doing it.
Legge Translation: The sixth line, dynamic, suggests the idea of a bird burning its nest. The stranger, thus represented, first laughs and then cries out. He has lost his ox-like docility too readily and easily. There will be evil.
Wilhelm Translation: The bird's nest burns up. The wanderer laughs at first, then must needs lament and weep. Through carelessness he loses his cow. Misfortune.
Liu Translation: A bird's nest burns. The exile laughs in the beginning, laments later. He loses his cow by being careless. Misfortune.
At a glance I would read it as you're in the middle of letting go (line 3) in 40 if you need to take action you take it as soon as you can to relieve tension or if you don't need take action you let the matter go, in 40 there's also a sense of forgiving ourselves and others. I would read it as don't sit around with your baggage, get up and walk, i.e take practical measures, down to earth measures, walk can also be take independent action. Get out of the idea that's keeping you sitting there, i.e let go of the idea that's keeping you sitting there with all you baggage and act, something to relieve the tension.Please advise what to do now
40.3 > 32
sort of be careful not to attract bad things (robbers) i.e. him? don't put yourself in a vulnerable position??
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