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I would not read 28 as the outcome, but as the context. There are strains on the house, pressure, that is the 28 context.
I think of 13.2 > 1 as saying "We're all crazy, that's what makes us family!"
How does one determine if the resulting hexagram should be read as the outcome or the context? Is it by way of the relationship/context of the question?
Because several people here got the line 53.6 when they broke up a long term relationship, a lot of people seem to think it is a break up line. I don't think that is necessarily the case. I think the common thread is they were in long term relationships, and that is the image of 53.6. Perhaps when they asked about ending the relationship, the Yi said to them, "You have been together for a long time - and you aren't getting any younger." Maybe "Your example is going to be a lasting impression/role model for others to follow." I don't think it says one person is going leave the other, although it does happen that someday one half of the couple dies. But the line says "their feathers" are used in a scared dance. I take this to say the example their relationship sets endures and is seen and emulated by others. It will have an invisible influence on the kids, perhaps.
I do not think a line in a hex makes it your fate that you are going to break up with a partner. That is a fate entirely within your own hands.
Just to add, Altair's post suggested me that.
Can it be so that 13.2 describes the situation when a husband and a wife are not a couple but live like neighbours, on their own? They are a family, formally, but each of them is in his own ancestral temple.
you mean they're separated then?
however it's looking to unite with line 5
Yes, they are separated and each of them lives his own life, but they are in marriage.
This line is unchanging here.
(re 53.6)
The reason why I associate it with "leaving the marriage" is due to line 4 and 2: after discovering the rock the goose then moves to a tree. A tree is a temporary resting place, not a permanent one, then line 6 comes about.
The sacred dance is simply a ritual based on old translation. This "ritual" could be a ritual of the mind aka treasuring the memories
The PAIR of swans find a resting place. "The Wild GEESE," not "The Wild GOOSE." They come to a place of stability, find a dwelling place, maybe they rent and do not own, something like that. The lines in the hex all refer to the journey of the COUPLE, not a single Swan. I think that is where you are going wrong here.
Here it is the journey of a solitary couple that flies. This is different somewhat than the journey of the farmer couple, or the rich polygamous family with many wives and concubines...
- LL
No, the marriage itself is a metaphor of the hexagram, the goose is the metaphor of the lines. I've said this many times: It's compared to marriage because of its nature - gradual process. This hexagram is not even the ideal hex for marriage (there's caution and traditional values as the wife carefully heads to the husband's house). Hexagrams such as 31 or 16 are far more superior in terms of auspiciousness. In fact, when young couples receive this hexagram when they ask "what's the potential of us getting married?", they will be told "Be patient, then that fated moment will come". The hexagram is NOT about marriage. It's about slow process, patience, gradual improvement, which are good for marriage, but the hexagram is definitely not about marriage. Hexagram 32 is similar to this hexagram too, its metaphor is marriage (you should be loyal as if you're in the marriage), the hexagram itself doesn't talk only about marriage. The judgment of a hexagram is almost always a metaphor, the image is what the hexagram really is about.Well - you hold an extreme view. 53 is one of the 4 hexes in the Yi that specifically refer to marriage. When the judgement says, "The maiden is given in marriage," to say that is only about how things develop *exclusive of actual marriage* is a bit rigid and makes things less clear. Yes it could give one advice on gradual progress of an individual, but Wild Geese is not only metaphor, it can be the couple that sticks together as the actual subject of the reading. Why not?
Here the querent's question was specifically about marriage. Here, the iChing replied with a marriage hex - giving a *direct answer* in my opinion. And the Chinese chose the Wild Geese as the marriage symbol because they mate for life. You read as works for you. I think your advice/rationale however, is rather complex and that the Yi is as straightforward and simple as possible. The idea that everything is hard to understand, deeply philosophical and arcane secret knowledge or something is a mistaken concept. Like Occam's Razor, the simplest explanation is usually the correct one. Being a good reader is learning to simplify. Most often this is hardest thing, in any area of human endeavor, in my experience.
Conjugal love/a couple's journey is certainly as important a subject as politics, or the two hexes that refer to man made objects, or art, music, ruling an empire, learning to learn... And as I asked you, where are such things discussed if not in 53 Wild Geese, 32 the Waterwheel, and the other marriage hexes? It has to be somewhere, no? You are divorcing the symbology of the hex which is it's literal meaning from the reading. So of course you end up calling the most beautiful lines in the hex, about a couple together growing though the stages of married life all lines about divorce. Because your entire approach is biased towards divorce. So that is what you see in the lines.
The lines the querent did not receive in 53 are far more problematic.
- LL
The question is not just about marriage, it's about the end of the marriage, aka divorce. It's normal for the situation to be bad too even when all the lines are good, if the result hexagram is bad. 28 is very, very bad for marriage because it's about something collapsing due to stress. How come all 3 lines are auspicious yet the result's image is of something collapsing? Illogical isn't it?
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