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Not half as illogical as the idea that the relating hexagram is the 'result' of the reading. The relating hexagram is all that surrounds the issue including past and present issues with often a bit of the future too but it is not the 'result'. I will post you a link. It also doesn't make sense to say 'the result hexagram is bad'. No hexagram is 'bad' nor 'bad for marriage'.
To say '28 is very very bad for marriage' doesn't really mean much as it might refer simply to a stressful period in the marriage or conditions beyond the marriage which have impacted upon it such as family pressures or finances and so on.
28 isn't just a normal stress (like hexagram 34 or 6), its level is immense, as its name indicates: "Preponderance of the great" , thus arguably the most stressful situation a hexagram can depict. And it's better to "move somewhere else" as staying in the house is totally out of the question unless you want injuries.
The balance is thrown off, as 2 weak lines are trying to contain 4 strong lines inside and it's impossible to hold. When received this hexagram in matters such as businesses, examination, job situation etc, it's usually advised to drop what you're doing and move to something else. It usually talks about a wrong path, a wrong decision that led to a difficult situation, wrong insight etc... So in a marriage query, how can you make this a good hexagram for marriage? What can it possible portray here to make it a good hexagram for marriage?
Iching is a practice of studying the cause and effect in nature (remember when i talk about a tree of possibility? The leaf at the end of the branch can't be disturbed if the branch isn't disturbed first). The resulting hexagram is an effect produced by the causes, which are the changing lines. Thus it could be the result, or the consequences when all the changing lines have done changing. This has always been something like a rule accepted by various practitioners of many generations, so it's your opinion to discard hexagram 28 as the result of the reading. For me it's the consequence when all 3 changing lines have changed. If you follow another method, it's your method. My method is to stick with the cause and effect concept like how it has always been for generations.
Recently I've been looking through my journal and saw a reading made for a person whom I have lost sight of for today. At the moment I am not able to clear up the current situation with his status, but it may be possible in the future. I'll omit the circumstances the more because I do not know them.
The question was: Will X be on the edge of divorcing?
53.2.4.6 > 28
I assumed that yes, over time.
I would appreciate sharing your views on it friends.
Ya and I did scaling too. The query was about "divorce", it's a big thing, a full stop of a marriage, thus you must scale it with the situation in the marriage, no? If a person asks about a divorce, meaning it's already bad enough to be considering it (in fact they are already living separately).Altair I'm no learned scholar but I have been consulting for nearly 40 years and I know by now one must always scale the answer to the question. One can get 28 when one is upset...or feeling over whelmed emotionally. Yes it can indicate extreme feelings of stress but this need not always be a literal threat of immediate collapse of something. It might indicate possibility of injury on some occasions....or it can mean you need a holiday !
Guessing from what Juliah has said it appears to me that she is asking about an ex-boyfriend and wondering if he is truly happy in his marriage and if he will ever divorce?
Trojina, if possible, would you comment on 13.2 (the question was if the marriage would be saved)?
Ya and I did scaling too. The query was about "divorce", it's a big thing, a full stop of a marriage, thus you must scale it with the situation in the marriage, no? If a person asks about a divorce, meaning it's already bad enough to be considering it (in fact they are already living separately).
28 usually only comes out when you're under heavy stress or heavy emotional problem, yes. Anyway when it comes out it's best to do what the hex tells you to: leave what you're doing and move to something new. The collapsing might be just a consequence of staying on the wrong track, not literal meaning.
I know the outcome could be changed since 53 is a very slow process and nothing is absolute in the tree of possibilities. I still suspect that one of them has feeling for somebody else to finalize the possibility of divorce (from line 4 and 6), but of course this will need feedback.
I have also worked with the iChing over 40 years Altair. The first rule of fortune telling is not to plant negative auspices in someone head, because people are impressionable and you do not want to be creating a situation, you are trying to see things as they are. In order to simplify, I have had to learn to put many preconceptions aside, how to step back and try to see the bigger picture. Usually the problem is being too close, we ask others largely because we need someone at a distance to take a look and give a fresh perspective.
I put the question and the reading side by side. The question here was if the marriage would end up at the edge of divorce. 28 refers directly I think, to what would bring a relationship to "the edge of divorce". This I see as "context," the question. 53 is about marriage, which is the other part of the question. The lines do not indicate that under stress, the couple breaks up. Other readings would be much more definite indicators of the "edge of divorce", for example 28.2.3.4.5.6>23. But this reading - not so bad. You have to have an idea of overall what the Yi could actually say, this had no splitting apart or 28.3.
A lot of times you are too certain telling people about bad auspices you protend when you are giving advice, Altair. If you want to help people you should dial it back a bit. even a real palm reader or tarot card reader, if they think someone is going to die, do not say it a client. It is too easy to plant a negative seed.
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