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Right now you having to address a 'Hinderance' through ' Decrease'.What do I do now with her to heal and rebuild our relationship?
The response was: 12.1.2.4.5 changing to 41
22: 3 <> 27What is possible between her and me now, after these difficulties?
The response was: 22.3 changing to 27
Your focus should be placed on you and how you can repair your 'Brilliance Injured' through 'Restricting'.What should I focus on to be the best I can be and succeed in repairing our connection?
The response was: 36.2.3.5 changing to 60
The answer to all of your questions is the same. Block her until you feel better, until you are sure about who you are in life, without her. If she comes back (she might!), be careful this time, you are probably not ready, your mindset is too weak now. If she doesn´t come back, be grateful. You dodged this one.
This all resonates my_key. I appreciate your phrasing to "walk under the banner of your new awareness." That seems to be the key to a lot of things since I see the patterns pretty clearly, but need to do more focusing on "walking under" that awareness. I believe in my ability to change these patterns, though it will certainly take time and require perseverance. That's perhaps what 27 is saying as well, that I have to act in such a way that nourishes that vision I have instead of acting contrary to that because of such emotional whirlpools.Right now you having to address a 'Hinderance' through ' Decrease'.
What the situation needs from you is a decrease (41) in the emotional whirlpool that is embracing you. It is creating chaos and taking a break from swimming in it would be a benefit to all.
To best counter the hinderance you are encountering, and thereby do what you can to heal the relationship, 12 advocates that you do not behave in outrageous ways and to restrain yourself while all the while remaining calm and dignified.
12.1 - the situation requires you to be truthful and honest with yourself. The time for falsehood is over.
12.2 - then you can walk under the banner of your new awareness
12.4 - allowing the decisions you make to be seen truthfully for what they are by both of you.
12.5 - Clear mutual understanding will correct the hinderance as best as can be. In time there is a chance for reconciliation.
22: 3 <> 27
Right now, the situation can be seen as based in having to focus on correcting the way you feel about each other and what has gone on between you both (27). See it as starting with a blank page in front of you (22) and write the new story on that page as truthfully as you can.
22.3 - Wounds have to be healed through constantly and perseveringly being open to healing the emotional rifts. Evaluate what the situation actually needs rather than imposing predetermined dogma or old patterns of behaviour onto the relationship. This will take time.
Your focus should be placed on you and how you can repair your 'Brilliance Injured' through 'Restricting'.
The Judgement of 36 asks for upright and steadfast thoughts and behaviours during times of hardship. Right now you might be carrying a sense of being an 'outcast' and 36 advocates that the focus required to repair this is to take a bit of a step back and to be watchful of all the ups and downs you are experiencing. Then to carefully adjust how your engage with the world to suit best your feelings.
It is this compassionate adaptation, which is being created from the healing restrictions embracing you now (60). Follow new behaviours rather than old and that will best repair your connection to your self and then onward into repairing relationship.
36.2 - You are being called towards a stronger way of walking in the world
36.3 - follow this and the way you see the world will change.
36.5 - A new positive structure for your life is just around the corner. Believe change is possible and you will make it happen.
... or the readings might mean something completely different for you.
Good Luck
I agree that some more space is needed. Blocking her doesn't seem like the best action, seeing as we are both a part of the same spiritual community and do wish to be friends, though providing some more space does seem beneficial. I'm looking at taking action to further my education and self-development and that's certainly good since it shifts the focus. It's funny you say I'm dodging this one because it really feels like we're both good people in a difficult position. No one is dodging anyone, but emotions are high. If anything, the way that I've been showing up is the problem in this dynamic. Change is always possible, and I'm leaning into that. Thank you for your feedback!
Spiritual community as in a Zen Buddhist practice center hah!If you are into her sexually, lustful, it will show over and over. Women pick this up almost immediately. Their brains are wired to scan it. So block, maybe not for her sake, but for your sake. Wanna repair, give it time and move on.
By the way, spiritual community? Like AA? That would be bad. Hope really its not like that at all. Somebody creeping up on me in a sacred place would turn me into an instant vampire. Beware.
Nah, just kidding about vampires. Anyway, GO, have fun, cast again, three readings are nice, why not more? Possibilities are always changing, right? You´ll get there, self-development is always a good and worthy path.
Spiritual community as in a Zen Buddhist practice center hah!
I am attracted to her for many reasons, and obviously, there is a sexual aspect to it. Perhaps you're saying that if that is there at all, it will be picked up on and that can cause difficulty. That's a fair point, though I do feel like I'm capable of setting those boundaries within myself. Giving it time and focusing on my actions seems crucial. The idea of blocking her, or no contact, simply isn't possible given the circumstances and also neglects the fact of more subtle aspects of the situation. Though I can and will be giving more space, the path seems to be in that balance of space to let things settle and also moving toward expressing myself in a better way that reflects what I truly value with her.
Thank you, sorry if I was seeming a bit like a know-it-all previously. Trying to understand the situation. I agree that it is all pointing to time and lessening proximity. Not sure how spiritually impeccable I'll be, but certainly will be doing my best to show up in a good way.Ok, good to know. Blocking, no contact, low contact, grey rock, low emotional engagement, it points all to the same, young master, to act from a mature standpoint by not enmeshing with what is ought to be sorted out by time and not by more proximity. Moving on is also a way of reparing things and as I understand buddist practice -also called detachment,- and therefore spiritually impeccable.
Clarity,
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