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shady

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My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years broke up with me a couple of days ago because he is unhappy in himself and unable to provide a strong, warm relationship with me. I tried with him for quite some time but after the first 2 years it was like something clicked in him and he just couldn't be emotionally open. He finally worked out that he needed to take time alone to sort his feelings out, but that he wanted to get back together in the future, once he sorts himself out, if we could, and that he would always love me.

I know you're not supposed to ask the I ching questions about other people's feelings but I have been trying not to contact him and seeing what happens.

Yesterday I asked how he was thinking of me. I got Hex 49 unchanging. I wondered if this meant he was glad to be rid of me, to have 'shed' that skin and be ready to carry on with life.

Today I asked if my interpretation of Hex 49 was close to the truth. I got Hex 46.1.4.6 changing to 64, and really wasn't sure what that could mean. Maybe a reinforcement? Or maybe an indication that he is 'Pushing Upward' trying to work on himself with a view to making things work with me? I'm interested to hear anyone's thoughts.

I finally asked when he would contact me again, as I am sure he will. I got 28.1.2 > 49. More 49!

I don't know what to think: I don't know whether 49 means an eventual revolution and 'shedding' of his emotional problems or that eventually he will be back.

I'd really appreciate some insight.
 

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changes

49 definately means lots of changes for you especially showing up time and again.

concentrate on yourself, if the paths meet fine, if they don't, also fine. :bows:
 

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Thanks greekgoddess. I have a weird intuited feeling that the paths will meet again. I can't explain it and it isn't willed by me. It's like it just 'is' whatever I want. That's why I have been phrasing my questions as 'whens' rather than 'ifs'.

Anybody else have any insights? Or want to tell me I'm completely wrong, lol?
 

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Of 49-- A useful interpretation is "on your own day you are believed." You may be the one urging a new direction in this situation, but may not get any recognition for it until the change is completed. And maybe not even then, but the situation will have changed. Hopefully, for the better.

People change and relationships change -- the issue is of how the parties work with the changes -- flowinging with them where-ever they lead, grudgingly being dragged along by them, stone-walling and denying....

46.1.4.6 Pushing upward -- a very positive hex concerning your personal development and progress. You must make an effort toward your goal-- as you seem to be doing. Of the changing lines -- 4 is very powerful indicator of a successful outcome.

64-- It ain't over 'till it's over...

28-- the ridgepole sags under too much weight... but if you're flexible and act in a timely manner, things will turn out well.

Both changing lines concern putting yourself in a position of serving, rather than trying to be the leader. The "old willow sprouts," suggesting a renewal.

Overall, a set of optimistic readings. This does not promise that all will be happily ever after with you and the guy -- you cannot make someone change, you can only invite change in them by changing yourself. However the relationship progresses, you will be a better person from this experience.

Of the "when" questions -- IC is remarkably unconcerned about time. Everything happens in its time. You cannot know the future.
 

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