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I see.while she's been happily dreaming in her childish world
This is a dangerous point. Allowing beautiful dreams to cloud how we evaluate a potential partner's character is dangerous. My tip for this is not to mistake the drugged-like infatuation stage as real love. It's not. Ignore the dizziness and keep wits about you to get to know who you're dealing with.
I feel like a dumb naive person immerged in romantic fantasies (read illusions) who just woke up at 31 to see everyone else has mastered the adult life games while she's been happily dreaming in her childish world.
It's totally intelligible for me, a matter of style, you know.Oh Mary,
Many people just throw spaghetti and stick with presenting a face.
(Perhaps that sentence is intelligible to someone other than m.e.)
With all due respect, I don't agree with your point of view on women and sex, as presented in the link you shared.And here is something I tell all young women:
You can make the world (human beings overall, society) a better place by being very selective in choosing partners. If you settle for a jerk, the jerk, will never have to work to improve himself.
Think of https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lysistrata
)Line 2 from your reading says you are old enough now for a relationship.
How could you possibly agree or disagree?With all due respect, I don't agree with your point of view on women and sex.
By reading the link you shared to confirm your ideas.How could you possibly agree or disagree?
(Since I didn't express any opinions on sex or women)
Yes.I hear that sex makes one more relaxed,
and less uptight.
i feel (i might be wrong here) that m.e.'s point was that most of the people who you (might) believe to have already learned how to "live better" didn't really learn all that much. by throwing spaghetti at the wall to see what sticks or playing the field one doesn't necessarily arrive at the right conclusions or exercise any actual values and so quite often these people still miss out on good relationships and the right person to spend their life with (and quite likely only continue wrong patterns they learned in their youth), but because they wasted their time doing so, they keep up the appearance of being somehow more "experienced" which is pretty much just a facade for their own insecurities. i often find that the more "experienced" someone presents themselves to be, the more lost and less grounded they actually are... otoh people who are honest about their inexperience and insecurities are at least honest enough with themselves to accept the fact and i'd think it can actually be a sign of maturity or at least personal growth.And we return to the starting point: (most) other people have learned how to live better than me, and I'm the naïve one who attempts, falls and is disappointed but tries to stand up.
Hi MaryIf you've read my previous posts, you know about my limited experience in romantic/ sexual areas. Now that I've decided to jump in the pool, I'm very annoyed by the fact that even people several years younger than me are considerably more experienced, have had several partners & various types of relationships.
It hurts. Really.
I feel like a dumb naive person immerged in romantic fantasies (read illusions) who just woke up at 31 to see everyone else has mastered the adult life games while she's been happily dreaming in her childish world.
Not that I expected others to have as few experiences as I, but it hurts my confidence to
see someone about a decade younger than me talking about his numerous sexual encounters who doesn't bother calling and spending time with me because he doesn't care about things other than sex as he's sick of romantic relationships. WTF.
Then where's my place in this field? Everyone I meet has had his share of romantic relationships and now just wants sex, whether he's in his early 20s or late 30s; and they are people I've known for years & thought I could form a romantic relationship with.
Very shitty.
I talked with the I Ching about feeling insecure because of this and got: 4.2.6>2
What does the advice mean? That I accept the ignoramus without much judgement?
I took that & was reading Moss Elk's post lightheartedly with a smile on my face until I opened the link he shared & presented as a good example of how women can serve the society by being selective.i feel (i might be wrong here) that m.e.'s point was that most of the people who you (might) believe to have already learned how to "live better" didn't really learn all that much.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).