Feelings and 42.3>37

[aiyana]

After a few years of posting career questions finally one about feelings .....

A neighbor and I have been seeing each other romantically since the beginning of the year. It has been more or less casual but the tone is changing .... I'm not in the habit of having casual relationships that last this long but have been busy rekindling a career and he's opened a new business. We've both been conscious of boundaries but haven't gone a week without spending time together and the friendship is deepening.

I asked Yi, is he developing feelings for me and received 42.3>37. Wind over thunder - referring to the amazing chemistry I would think. Line 3 - Enriched through unfortunate events. Not sure how this applies yet changing lines seem to be where the juice is.

I asked Yi what are his feelings for me and received 40.1. Being without fault/blame. Errr not sure where to go with this one but then again I'm more the practical sort (convenience, the easy joy of our companionship), perhaps it's the same for him. Then again, we have other priorities being in a committed relationship not being one of them - the 54?

 

[moss elk]

42.3
Did one of the two of you recently suffer some loss ( of a loved one or job?)
How did you come together?
The line does speak of sincerity, so maybe there are some real feelings here.

 

[blue_angel]

"Is he developing feelings for me?" 42.3>37. It doesn't seem like a yes to me. At least not a romantic, love, or relationship sense. 37 is the proper roles and places we fit into a family. 42 can be increase, yes. Line 3- advises you to walk the middle path, be sincere, and reasonable. Which it sounds like you are. It goes on further to say, through unfortunate events you two become close or benefit each other. Seems more of a friendship or a co-worker type of reading.

"What are his feelings for me?" 40.1>54. 54 is an assistant, a concubine or someone that comes second. 40 can be a release or liberating. And line 1 says basically there's nothing wrong with things exactly as they are. What you see is what you get. So perhaps his feeling is you assist him in liberating or releasing tension. And he likes it just like it is.