Clarity,
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I received 53UC some time ago, it meant that things would move slowly but yet it required action, I did the required action but currently I have found the underlying source of the problem(36.3)I think you need to take some time out and ask one question> absolutely noone is going to wade through your stream of readings. You are probably being a little too obsessive to state it mildy! I think wait, do nothing is the best advice the Yi could give you. Take a break for your own sanity.
Music's Euphoria is temporaryTopher, you should listen to your favorite music several times a day, cool music can do you good
Why does it keeps returning the question at me?
I think that still is giving me the question back to me it would be clear if the iching would answer with a more clear answerIt isn't.
You neitber grasp the meanings of most of your readings,
nor slow down enough to listen to any of the days of extensive advice I gave in PM.
This one says,
"Look at the obstruction and stop this madness."
"Look at yourself...
Is she good for you?
Is any of this good for you?"
That is how to decide to approach or retreat. (hint: no she isn't)
"Look at her, she is giving you every signal possible for you to retreat from her."
This is how to decide what to do.
(hint: she wants you to go away)
The readings you shared all indicate for you to desist.
Wale up man.
Music is not always for euphoria, it can really help you refocus, revitalise (or, do an activity that you really like)... If you really want to see this woman again, you should refocus first, take a step back (hexagram 20), let go and find clear ideas...Music's Euphoria is temporary
Anyway I asked to find if she was worth all that effort and told me 20.3.6
Why does it keeps returning the question at me? This doesn't make sense
20 was certainly about examining but I found the question similar to what I askedMusic is not always for euphoria, it can really help you refocus, revitalise (or, do an activity that you really like)... If you really want to see this woman again, you should refocus first, take a step back (hexagram 20), let go and find clear ideas...
I understand his point of view, he is right in what he thinks but 20.6 is impossible to interpret clearly. it talks about experiencing from an outer point of view, truly objective, I can only see my interaction with her and my actions but not why she acts in certain way when I talked to her, I can only come to a conclusion from my point of view. yes he is right about 20.3 but it is hard to truly know all sides on 20.6, think it was if you acts too soon, or over did something is it to blame that your actions influenced the expected outcome?if you don’t want to listen the the interpretations of experienced people like Moss Elk why the heck are you posting here asking for advice.
When I was in contact with her she took a lot of the free time I hadHey Topher,
What do you do for fun?
Any hobbies? Exercise?
I used to play games.
Well I play sometimes RTSs(the lastest I played was Ashes of the singularity) sometimes tactical fps like Squad or mire arcade like rainbow six siege, arcade racing games like Grid(2019) and was waiting for a game that called my attention but sadly no new game makes me feel excited for some reason the last one was Doom eternal which was one that I was highly anticipating but other than that no other gamesWhat kind?
(Games have been a big part of my life.)
(I played Atari at 5 years old, Chess at 8,
practically llived in an Ancient thing called
*Arcades*as 13 y/o truant delinquent,
loved pen&paper rpg's at 15 y/o,
PC strategy and action Console games from 18+, Go 3dan at 25. I never played mmo's because I knew that, because I loved games so much, they would take too much time)
It's nice to meet you, by the way
Mostly calisthenics and dumbbellsOk, I think we may have a few things in common.
What kind of exercise do you engage in?
Have a good nightOk, I'm going to sleep now.
I'll check back in with you tomorrow.
Maybe she said something similar to what I said and you didn't even notice it?for example she probably expected I acted in a more controlled way rather taking as if we had some sort of trust, I wanted just to carry a conversation but there are certain things that cant be said in a way to some people because remind of something to them.
Maybe she said something similar to what I said and you didn't even notice it?
I said something funny. Did you notice it?
I didnt really went back to your post because the likeliness of it being the same wasnt probable and she does not have a sense of humor, to make jokes, quite the opposite. when we were writing each other in the past I was the optimistic happy person while when we videocalled it was the opposite(whenever she wasnt feeling depressed due to her underlying problem)Err... see that is the problem I think.
With you I find there is no communication.
yo u quoted my post but you copied and pasted a previous answer and then you continued with your strain of thoughts in an autistic way.
Having said that, the only thing I can add is that in my experience when you are down to casting about a person, that person is not the one for you.
If conversation doesn’t flow, if you don’t know how to approach them , if it doesn’t come natural to you to be with them, if you don’t get what they mean and have to make assumptions , they’re not your soul mate for sure.
Also, asking a few questions may be ok, but asking hundreds without listening and thinking about the first 99 you got is compulsive behaviour.
Anyway my first comment wanted to be funny because I myself have the tendency of asking a lot of questions, and I was proud to hold
But now for sure that medal is yours
I might have a different sense of humor from yours. But it’s important to have one, as women like to laugh, remember!!
And if they don’t, you better leave them where they are because 90% chances it’s miserable people who will make you miserable.
Always laughing,
Super Olga
It sounds reasonable the thing is that she felt the same enthusiasm I did but she got angry, she gets unrational when angry and at moments when you get her "happy" and make peace she kept some distance at least with me. her best friend also commented by trival problems she stopped talking her for a week(being the person she said valued the most). so go figure how she is with the people she considers worthwhile...I don’t think you have to correct anything. If she thinks you take up too much time of hers, she is not the one for you.
You want someone who wants to spend time with you.
I have decided I am not going to spend a single hour on someone who doesn’t show the same enthusiasm I feel for them, be it friendship or love.
I feel so much better
I had received before a casting about what should I tell herOk but you don't want to spend your entire life trying to make someone happy and be careful at what you say? If you have to be constantly careful at words, it means communication is not on the same wavelength.
People are different, we have to find someone who is on our wavelength, otherwise it's very difficult. If you have to explain each time, it means there is not much communication.
I find my people are the ones I don't need to explain anything. We just understand each other, intentions and so on. No one gets offended. When someone gets offended too often, there is a problem, and I have found much more rewarding to just move away from those people.
Of course it's up to you, but with so many casts it is difficult to know what Yi wants to tell you. After a while people say it may be replying to other things.
So I suggest you stop casting for 2/3 weeks about her, then ask just one question. You can think for 3 weeks about what question you want to ask.
You could maybe ask "How should I act towards her?" or "What to do with my attraction to her?" and then that one answer will be much clearer.
Thats's what I can tell from my experience. The more I cast, the more messy it all becomes!
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).