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larouge

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Dear all,
I need your kind assistance!
I have learned something that really shocked me. My ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend! (that's fine!). What is not fine to me... is the she is has the same name, colors, details of me!! We are in a small geographic area where my colors are rare. I'have red heir blu eyes freckles. This is not common where a live. There are few people like that.
I found pretty shocking that when I moved to another city he has choose a woman clone of me (i know at least from the outside).
We also have de same exactly NAME. That even more shocking!! He is the one that broke up with me and broke my heart. We had an amazing strong connection but we where totally incapable at the time to build a healthy relationship!!
So now I have to deal with this. There is something inside me that it is telling me that this is not a coincidence.
I feel now obsessed in knowing what's the meaning of that. If I'm related to this somehow.
What is the meaning of that?
64.2
It is my intuition correct?
17.1.2.3.5

Honestly I can't find the right question for the I ching that can answer me if he did that on purpose!!! Please any suggestion would be appreciated!!

Thank you!!
 

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Wow! How weird. Anyway, I'm not clear what you are asking. "What is the meaning of that?" Are you asking what is the "meaning" of his dating another redhead? Or what is the "meaning" of your hunch this is not a coincidence?
 

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If you are asking what the meaning is of your ex dating someone who looks similar to you, 64.2 might be saying it means he rushed into a new relationship too quickly. On the other hand, if 64.2 is referring to your intuition then it could be warning you not to jump to conclusions.
 

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Not unlike baby ducks,
humans have an imprinting thing.
It is more pronounced in some (as in pathology) than in others.
I've seen this several times before,
in males and females.
The take away is that the 'pattern' (as in 22 appearance) of the person, was more of a driving force in the relationship than the actual person was. at least from his side.
The worst example I saw was a guy that picked a gal that looked like the spitting image of his mother. It was shocking.
 

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How interesting Moss Elk!
Do you have more information about that or can you suggest anything I can read more about?

Your question to me "Why do you care about it?" is actually the only good question here!... I don't know why I care some much... for sure some ego's part is at play that I wish he misses me so much!
But something really touch me about that.. and I think is that fact that I felt something "insane" about that and I would like to know more!...
 

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I'm sure people must have written about this, but I don't have a book or article to refer you to. (I have only observed it.)
 

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I think Johnny Carson married three women and they were all named Joan...
 

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