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Hi everyone! I’m new with I Ching I’ve asked about his feelings for me, we had a breakup very bad few weeks ago. He was a friend for years and after 9 years of friendship, something happened between us. We had a bad argument, bad story. He closed every door to communicate. He was the one that constantly said that he didn’t want me but he kept to be around me and everything. I had hex 12.4 to 20 ... I can’t understand very well, I know is not good. But 20??? Can I read like he’s closed in his thoughts to understand what he really feels? He acted very bad with me. And 20 like he will realize that he has feelings. Please help me.In the previous reading i’ve Asked if he will come back to me and I had 11.2.3 to 24 seems goodPlease help me
 

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Hello Fancy!

Sorry for what you're going through. Have been in similar situation. It sucks.
Tough you haven't written any specific question I guess the first reading is about the general situation.

12.4 to 20
Hexagram 12 presents the status quo: there is Blockage; you're Blocked.
12.4: "Wilhelm/Baynes: He who acts at the command of the highest remains without blame. Those of like mind partake of the blessing." If any of you has been acting according to their values, they'll have no regrets; they've lost nothing and will find better companions who'll share those values.
Hexagram 20 confirms the idea: "Wilhelm/Baynes: Contemplation . The ablution has been made, but not yet the offering. Full of trust they look up to him." Being sincere is being right, whether it's recognized at the moment or not. At the end of the day, the trustworthy person will be respected and appreciated.

Will he come back to me? 11.2.3 to 24

Things will take their natural Course (11)[this hexagram is called Flow, indicating a time when the heaven and the earth easily communicate and the current meets no obstacle] to prepare the condition of his Return (24), or your own Return to life without him.The lines may both describe what happens further, or give you advice how to behave in order to make him return.
11.2: "Wilhelm/Baynes: Bearing with the uncultured in gentleness, fording the river with resolution, not neglecting what is distant, not regarding one's companions: thus one may manage to walk in the middle."The uncultured behavior- or person- would be handled in a gentle way. The distance will be traversed by making the things clear. The friend isn't forgotten , nor is the background (though both are keft behind according to Hilary). You can solve the problem by being moderate. Interestingly, DeKorne writes about this line: "Turmoil is a fact of life. Unaffected by conventional norms, one bucks the current of ignorance and focuses on the goals of the Work. Cope competently."
11.3: "Wilhelm/Baynes: No plain not followed by a slope. No going not followed by a return. He who remains persevering in danger is without blame. Do not complain about this truth; enjoy the good fortune you still possess." A clear image of coming back. The break-up seems to be just a scene of your friendship- or maybe the friendship has been another experience in your life, meant to finish someday. Anyway, considering the fact that everything changes, you'll endure the hardship by enjoying other aspects of the life.

Good Luck!
 

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Hi!!!

Oh thanks for the reply!!Well hexagram 12.4 to 20 was for the question “ what “his feelings” for me? So how should I take it? Today for the same question about his feelings for me I got 40 unchanging. It’s stressful, I can’t get the reading
Hello Fancy!Sorry for what you're going through. Have been in similar situation. It sucks.Tough you haven't written any specific question I guess the first reading is about the general situation.12.4 to 20Hexagram 12 presents the status quo: there is Blockage; you're Blocked.12.4: "Wilhelm/Baynes: He who acts at the command of the highest remains without blame. Those of like mind partake of the blessing." If any of you has been acting according to their values, they'll have no regrets; they've lost nothing and will find better companions who'll share those values.Hexagram 20 confirms the idea: "Wilhelm/Baynes: Contemplation . The ablution has been made, but not yet the offering. Full of trust they look up to him." Being sincere is being right, whether it's recognized at the moment or not. At the end of the day, the trustworthy person will be respected and appreciated. Will he come back to me? 11.2.3 to 24Things will take their natural Course (11)[this hexagram is called Flow, indicating a time when the heaven and the earth easily communicate and the current meets no obstacle] to prepare the condition of his Return (24), or your own Return to life without him.The lines may both describe what happens further, or give you advice how to behave in order to make him return.11.2: "Wilhelm/Baynes: Bearing with the uncultured in gentleness, fording the river with resolution, not neglecting what is distant, not regarding one's companions: thus one may manage to walk in the middle."The uncultured behavior- or person- would be handled in a gentle way. The distance will be traversed by making the things clear. The friend isn't forgotten , nor is the background (though both are keft behind according to Hilary). You can solve the problem by being moderate. Interestingly, DeKorne writes about this line: "Turmoil is a fact of life. Unaffected by conventional norms, one bucks the current of ignorance and focuses on the goals of the Work. Cope competently."11.3: "Wilhelm/Baynes: No plain not followed by a slope. No going not followed by a return. He who remains persevering in danger is without blame. Do not complain about this truth; enjoy the good fortune you still possess." A clear image of coming back. The break-up seems to be just a scene of your friendship- or maybe the friendship has been another experience in your life, meant to finish someday. Anyway, considering the fact that everything changes, you'll endure the hardship by enjoying other aspects of the life.Good Luck!
 

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33. WithdrawalLine 6:Fertile withdrawal.Without disadvantage.Withdrawing creates a fertile situation. The withdrawal is not causing any problems.
 

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Question: will be there a reconciliacion between me and x?Ic: 33.6 changing to 31It seems no! What about this reading?
 

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Will be there a reconciliacion between me and x?Ic: 33.6 changing to 31

There is Withdrawal(33) for the moment...
33.6: "Liu: Retreat after success. Everything is favorable." and for good.
I can't say for sure if 31 shows a reconciliation between you or being attracted to someone else.
 

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11.3 ..... A clear image of coming back.
In my experience 11.3 is not that.

The best way I can describe it is as Yi being gentle and patting you on your back, saying 'buck-up little camper', there are ups and downs in life, enjoy the good you still have. Here, have a cookie."

The 12.4 and 33.6 don't really lend themselves to the idea of romantic reconciliation either.
 

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Will be there a reconciliacion between me and x?Ic: 33.6 changing to 31

There is Withdrawal(33) for the moment...
33.6: "Liu: Retreat after success. Everything is favorable." and for good.
I can't say for sure if 31 shows a reconciliation between you or being attracted to someone else.
Oh thanks! Well we had a sort of reconciliation but he say he doesn’t love me. But wee keep seeing eachother, I mean not just as friends. We have intimacy.
 

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In my experience 11.3 is not that.

The best way I can describe it is as Yi being gentle and patting you on your back, saying 'buck-up little camper', there are ups and downs in life, enjoy the good you still have. Here, have a cookie."

The 12.4 and 33.6 don't really lend themselves to the idea of romantic reconciliation either.
Thanks! Well for him it’s not romantic because he realized is not in love with me... but we have been intimacy. I’ve just posted another reading because at the moment I’m very confused
 

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