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minnie

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Dear all,

I come to you for advice. I am faced with a very important choice for my 17 year old son. In high school he has been a disaster so far (he is dyslexic, dysgraphic and with attention deficit disorder (without hyperactivity)).
Last year I changed him school and improvements have been big and reassuring. Two weeks ago this school closed forever. So I had to hunt for a new school and now I am down to the final two school and the responsibility of possibly making the wrong choice for him is overwhelming.
So I asked the yi two questions:
1. What to I need to know about school A in relation to their capacity of helping my son? 8.2>29
School B? 37.4.5.6>55
2. What will be the consequences on my son's chances to successfully finish high school if I choose school A? 47.5-40
School B? 64.3>50.

As more background information: school A is existing since 15 years, it is close to home and it is more or less traditional teaching with extra support, school B is a startup made from some of the teachers left unemployed by the closing of the previous school so they already taught my son last year, they will try a more innovative approach to teaching ... but will they succeed?

Would you be so kind to help me make sense of what the Yi is trying to tell me? At first look School B seems what the Yi suggest me being the more appropriate, but the little fox soaking his tail scares me to bits.

Thank you in advance for understanding an anxious mother and for your help.

Best,
M*
 

steve

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Hi

Without really studying this reading too hard and I can see this is an extremely important series of questions.
I think the oracle is reflecting the situation as it is , stuck between a rock and a hard place.

Personally I like 47.5 leading to 40, hexagram 40 when i do my own readings I would call the hexagram relief to an extent.
I do a lot of readings related to my business and most times I am being told about financial relief.
The rain maker is here type of thing after drought.
I think you will get some success but how much I dont know, but some which is progress.

The other reason I like 47.5 is that 47 reflects the pressure you may feel and line 5 maybe the light in the tunnel.

I hope you can get some clarity and I hope you have some support.
I would possibly ask a question or questions as what you can best do to help the real crux of the situation.
The answers appear to relate so possibly dig deeper

Let me know if i can help further, I am sure others here will weigh in so you get a better insight.

Steve
 
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minnie

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Thank you Steve, I am thinking to ask further and deeper questions but they are difficult to formulate. Maybe I have to sleep on it. maybe the 47.5 interpretation you suggest is linked some way to the fact that the school A is much cheaper than the other? Financial relief?
Thank you so much for replying and if you think of something else that might foster further reflection please ship it in. I am totally alone in making this important decision so I can use all the help I can get.
Gratefully,
M*
 

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What to I need to know about school A in relation to their capacity of helping my son?
8.2 - Hexagram 8 talks about the process of forming bonds with others, which I suspect is very relevant to your son's needs. Line 2 speaks about one's ability to form bonds being an inner state of being, rather than merely dependent on outer circumstance. The social situation at school A will test your son's inner ability to connect with others, as seen by the changed Hexagram 29, which speaks about emotional turmoil. On the positive side, school A could help your son address such issues.

School B? 37.4.5.6>55
Hexagram 37 speaks about a situation that has the close feeling of of family. Lines 4, 5, and 6 talk about the esteem, and also the self esteem that comes from being in a supportive environment where you are known and loved as a member, or even as a leader of the clan. The changed hexagram 55 speaks about an abundance of blessing coming from being open and receptive to the good things flowing one's way - a good state of mind.

2. What will be the consequences on my son's chances to successfully finish high school if I choose school A?
47.5-40 here graduation becomes merely liberation from oppressive circumstance, but not a real education, or preparation for his future.

School B?
64.3>50 - Before Completion, line 3 speaks about not forcing an incomplete transition. And the transformed hexagram, The Cauldron is about the process of cooking a fine meal - patience, time, respect for the process is required. Could be seen from two points of view, either your son may need more time and support to be truly ready for graduation, or even when he does graduate that will not be the end of his need for education and a supportive environment.
 

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