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Hi, Anon.
Your desperate cry for help indicates to me, that H 23 refers to the situation you are in, rather than describing the destruction of his relationship with this girl. The moment you are involved when asking the Yi, it is only natural that the sage adresses to your situation. Usually she-he adresses to both parts of the question, that is you and your partner, since you are both part of the question.
If.23 refers to YOU and your situation, then line 4 describes a "hard fact" probelm like loosing your job/home/partner or problems with health and pregnancy. (or sometimes you only throw out the old bed from the bedroom.)
If the Yi describes HIS situation with a H 23, then he is facing utter destruction and is in an emotional painful situation. Just like you, too. So he cannot be very much in love with you, can he ?
The fanyao in H 35 is not very auspicous. It indicates that in times of progress the dark element progresses into the light, too. The process of acquiration is not lucky. Could be that you will find out that he wants to have both of you. Could be, that his gf. is not a good choice, could be she kicked im out and he is coming back to you for the wrong reasons. Only you do know the context. It also could put the question back to you: do you really want to progress this way, hold on to him and have more of this man ? "Determination not auspicious".
Personally, I would take this answer to wether he has left his girlfriend as a "no" to a question that is not quite to the point. AND I would not put all the eggs of my life into this basket of wether he has ??.. Question is: does he want to be with you for the right reasons? Do you want to have him back for sound reasons? Will you be able to trust him ?
Anyway, with Hex.35 you have the chance to progress without suffering further destruction.
Love,
Ella
Your desperate cry for help indicates to me, that H 23 refers to the situation you are in, rather than describing the destruction of his relationship with this girl. The moment you are involved when asking the Yi, it is only natural that the sage adresses to your situation. Usually she-he adresses to both parts of the question, that is you and your partner, since you are both part of the question.
If.23 refers to YOU and your situation, then line 4 describes a "hard fact" probelm like loosing your job/home/partner or problems with health and pregnancy. (or sometimes you only throw out the old bed from the bedroom.)
If the Yi describes HIS situation with a H 23, then he is facing utter destruction and is in an emotional painful situation. Just like you, too. So he cannot be very much in love with you, can he ?
The fanyao in H 35 is not very auspicous. It indicates that in times of progress the dark element progresses into the light, too. The process of acquiration is not lucky. Could be that you will find out that he wants to have both of you. Could be, that his gf. is not a good choice, could be she kicked im out and he is coming back to you for the wrong reasons. Only you do know the context. It also could put the question back to you: do you really want to progress this way, hold on to him and have more of this man ? "Determination not auspicious".
Personally, I would take this answer to wether he has left his girlfriend as a "no" to a question that is not quite to the point. AND I would not put all the eggs of my life into this basket of wether he has ??.. Question is: does he want to be with you for the right reasons? Do you want to have him back for sound reasons? Will you be able to trust him ?
Anyway, with Hex.35 you have the chance to progress without suffering further destruction.
Love,
Ella