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YiNoob

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Hello everyone,


It's my first time posting here.
Have been stalking this site for years already tho :eek:


Nevertheless, I have been plagued with relationship issues and i finally found the courage to ask others for opinions on my i Ching readings.

A little background info, I have been practicing i Ching since i was about 10 and i Ching has never failed to guide me in my life from relationships, friends, career and every other things i can think of. However, i only sought i Ching's advice only when I am faced with difficulties in life (i try not to rely on heavenly guidance and live my own life :odd: )

So as of recent, I have come to yet another road block in life and i simply can't think of anything logical or will to overcome this obstacle.

I was with X for more than over a year and the relationship was going downhill along the way. (More of my own issues as i could not commit and could not find a reason to although i want to be responsible for the love that X has showered me throughout the relationship) So, the relationship was ended by my own hands in the end. However, she continued to shower me with her love so much so i that it actually made me reconsider the entire relationship. Ultimately, i came to terms of X's flaws and found the will to commit to such a relationship, i am contented.

The problem was, when i decided to give it another go at it, at the same time, she decided to give up on us entirely!
So i was left hanging, despite my continuous effort over the few months, nothing seems to move her and there were alot of arguments that caused the relationship to progress to the current state of hatred between both of us.

Frustrated, i sought i Ching's advice.

I asked on 24th February 2017
What is the future of me and X ?
Yi replied Hexagram 26.2.4 -> 30
From my understanding, hexagram 26 seems to be speaking of potential that is waiting for action for it to emerge.
Containment, which means it's potential that is yet to be unlocked.
However, line 2 and line 4 seems to be telling me not to do anything at the current moment but make precautions to protect the situation.
Resulting in Hex 30 seems promising, Fire on top of Fire, passion ? Sticking together? Or does it mean it would exhaust both our existence?
I can't decide.



Later on, on 1st March, after another series of arguments, i decided to seek i Ching for advice.
Should i give up on X ?

I got Hex 11.2 -> 36
Hex 11 seems to signify that i shouldn't, with earth on top of heaven, there seems to be promise in persevering.
Further prompting action is line 2 which seems to indicate that pro-activeness and awareness is recommended.

Hex 36 seems to tell me to move in the dark, and focus on what's ahead.



However, later that day, another serious arguments emerged and i am just so confused by what i Ching has been telling me thus far.

I asked i Ching again.
"Is there still a future between me and X?"
As the argument was by far, the biggest and things were pretty much sour.

I got 48 unchanging.

AGAIN, "The Well", why do i Ching continuously tell me about "Potential", i noticed potential is continuously emerging from all my reading thus far.
My understanding of "The Well" is I have to go deeper to unlock the potential the well provides, the future will have clarity and with the right methods (retrieving water from the well), the benefits will be plenty and nourishing.


I wasn't convinced and i changed my question,
Are we destined for each other?
Replied Hex 31.2 -> 28
"Influence", seems to be a good indication when it comes to relationship, so i am taking that Yi is saying Yes but due to the line 2, it seems to be telling me to be patient and wait, AGAIN.
Resulting Hex 28, seems to indicate pressure that i can't seem to decide if it was the "good" kind or pressure or the "bad" kinds.

I gave up asking and accepted the answer and guidance, carried on with my life.




The biggest argument happened on the 5th of March, which turned the entire situation into one filled with hatred and disgust which means there won't be any more future communication between me and X.
I decided to consult I Ching again in hopes to take jab at i Ching for being wrong.
I asked, "Is there still potential between me and X?"
I got Hex 31.2 -> 28
THE SAME READING.

I thought to myself, Yi must be kidding me.
Therefore i changed my question, i asked "Are we still fated to be together?"
I got Hex 50 unchanging.
AGAIN, Potential, Contained.
Something is developing, something is brewing.



I came to accept the fact that i may have been interpretating Yi's advice all along and decided to take a look at all the notes and attempt to have a further understanding of those reading thus far, but no matter how i looked at it, it still seems the same!

I still get the conclusion that there is potential, I should be patience, and there's nothing i can do at the current moment.
The situation is bad as it is right now, there's 0 communication or effort, 0 passion, 0 everything.
I just don't see how any of that would have "Potential" in the future.



Suddenly after much thoughts, i recalled having a dream that X is pregnant with my child, i was there for the pre-delivery, missed the actual delivery due to work but was there immediately after the delivery. The dream continued as far as after the delivery, there was arrangement for a proper rite of marriage. Seemingly telling me that it was NOT planned, even the child was nameless after delivery and we were finding a name for him.

Concerned about this dream, i asked iChing
"Is X Pregnant?"
Yi answered, Hex 32 unchanging.
Seems to me something is indeed brewing and i am led to believe that she actually is pregnant from the nature of the hexagram.

Is that why there is any "Potential" of a relationship at all ?

Or is it that i have been interpretating the entire conversation with Yi wrong all along?

Can someone please enlighten me?
It's driving me crazy!
 

radiofreewill

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Hi YiNoob,

Thanks for de-lurking to share your situation!

I'm going to sight read your casts in order:

What is the future of me and X ?
Yi replied Hexagram 26.2.4 -> 30 ~ The big animal is you, take care of yourself, according to insight.

Should i give up on X ?
I got Hex 11.2 -> 36 ~ Yes, she confuses you.

"Is there still a future between me and X?"
I got 48 unchanging. ~ No, it's already played out.

Are we destined for each other?
Replied Hex 31.2 -> 28 ~ You are excessively attached to her.

I asked, "Is there still potential between me and X?"
I got Hex 31.2 -> 28 ~ see above.

Therefore i changed my question, i asked "Are we still fated to be together?"
I got Hex 50 unchanging. ~ The process has fizzled, and there is no chemistry left.

"Is X Pregnant?"
Yi answered, Hex 32 unchanging. ~ She is the same as she was before.

Of course, I don't know the specifics of your situation, but you appear to be all over the map in this relationship, everything from breaking it off with her to having a baby together, and it feels like it's more fantasy than real, too?

If you know that you tend to fixate on things and dwell on them obsessively ~ conjuring fantasies ~ then my advice is to ground yourself in everyday life and cultivate balanced and harmonious real world relationships.

If you can stabilize yourself this way, then your world will stabilize, too.

I hope this helps and all best!
 

YiNoob

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Thank you for clarifying my readings!

Apparently things indeed did not just end there, something else came up.

But i have to agree with your reading.

Thankyou!
 

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