hex 14.2.5.6 > 49

[squirrele]

Well some radical and pivotal changes on my romantic front. And me still finding it really hard to learn the iching. So I asked Whats the situation now? And I got 14.2.5.6 > 49. any help would be appreciated. Thanks

 

[tifa]

fasten your seat belt and get ready for the ride.

 

[long yi]

I have to assume that the querent is female.
出生时间：年　性别：女　起卦方式：直接指定
起卦时间：2012年10月04日03时46分
起卦农历：壬辰年八月十九日寅时

神煞：天乙—丑未　福星—申　日禄—巳　羊刃—午　驿马—申　桃花—卯　华盖—戌
干支：壬辰年　己酉月　戊戌日　甲寅时
旬空：午未　　寅卯　　辰巳　　子丑


六神　 伏神 　　　乾宫：火天大有（归魂）　　　　坎宫：泽火革
　　　　　　　　　【本　卦】　　　　　　　　　　　【变　卦】
朱雀　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　官鬼己巳火　应○→　▅▅　▅▅　父母丁未土　　
青龙　　　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　父母己未土　　×→　▅▅▅▅▅　兄弟丁酉金　　
玄武　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　兄弟己酉金　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　子孙丁亥水　世
白虎　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　父母甲辰土　世　　　▅▅▅▅▅　子孙己亥水　　
滕蛇　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　妻财甲寅木　　○→　▅▅　▅▅　父母己丑土　　
勾陈　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　子孙甲子水　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　妻财己卯木　应

Without any background information,

Line 3 is host line (you), you are disappointed with a lost relationship (marriage document sits empty in your house of spouse.

Line 6 is the guest line (him), he is moving on and has no place in your house of spouse.
Both line 3 and 6 are yang lines. You two do not agree on key issues and there is no sincere interest to be together. Line 3 and 6 refers to white tiger and bird. This means you two have a disagreement.
Line 6 is on the move. He is leaving onto a career or relationship appointment, but there is no such appointment in 2012.

There is a female in line 2. She does not interfere with what you do. She moves onto something else. That something else has a conflicting engagement with his future moves.
Line 4 is a man or female love rival. If he is a man, you have some connection to this person.
Line 5 is a change line shows a relationship or career is either breaking or forming. This concerns the person in line 4.

Line 1 of hexagram 49 refers to a female who has some conflicting connection to the person in line 4 of hexagram 14 and line 5 of hexagram 49.

Revolution (hexagram 49) means major changes to the relationship road map. Differences are obvious between the two parties. In any event, no marriage or commitment of any type will be happening.

Life moves on with yourself.

From hexagram 14, you can have many male friends. It seems that the events in line 5 that a person is chosen and you expect certain commitment. However, it will not come to fruitful conclusion.

 

[squirrele]

thank you long yi, you are accurate with regards to the current details of the situation, however this man has come back to me, but by your explanation I am wondering why it shows that he has moved on?

 

[squirrele]

or perhaps i will move on to someone else?

 

[long yi]

神煞：天乙—丑未　福星—申　日禄—巳　羊刃—午　驿马—申　桃花—卯　华盖—戌
干支：壬辰年　己酉月　戊戌日　甲寅时
旬空：午未　　寅卯　　辰巳　　子丑


六神　 伏神 　　　乾宫：火天大有（归魂）　　　　坎宫：泽火革
　　　　　　　　　【本　卦】　　　　　　　　　　　【变　卦】
朱雀　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　官鬼己巳火　应○→　▅▅　▅▅　父母丁未土　　
青龙　　　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　父母己未土　　×→　▅▅▅▅▅　兄弟丁酉金　　
玄武　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　兄弟己酉金　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　子孙丁亥水　世
白虎　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　父母甲辰土　世　　　▅▅▅▅▅　子孙己亥水　　
滕蛇　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　妻财甲寅木　　○→　▅▅　▅▅　父母己丑土　　
勾陈　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　子孙甲子水　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　妻财己卯木　应

Line 6 官鬼己巳火 is the officer line with a man in it.
▅▅▅▅▅　官鬼己巳火　应○→　▅▅　▅▅　父母丁未土

This is a change line, therefore the resulting line is some type of document (may even be marriage document). Since 未土 (earth) occupies the empty slot under the year of the dragon (2012). This means that nothing can happen in 2012.

line 2
滕蛇　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　妻财甲寅木　　○→　▅▅　▅▅　父母己丑土
refers to a female moving onto a document (perhaps marriage document). However, the document in line 2 of hexagram 49 is in conflict with the document in line 5.

Therefore the man in line 2 and the female in line 6 does not share the same value.

Line 5 青龙　　　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　父母己未土　　×→　▅▅▅▅▅　兄弟丁酉金　
This relationship (document) moves on to a change line with another person (male or female).
This person (line 5 of hexagram 49) is in conflict with the female in line 1 of hexagram 49.

Conflict means a lack of resolution. Line 6 of hexagram 49 is earth and line 5 of hexagram 49 is metal.
Earth produces metal. If there is any relationship at all, it is the man with another person.

Line 3 and 4 are door position of the house. You soul is sitting in line 3 & 4 of the hexagram 49. You are half foot in and half foot out.

父母 can also means parents. In my analysis, I view it as a document (marriage type of relationship).

If you look at 父母甲辰土 (host line - line 3 of 14), 父母己丑土 (line 2 of 49), 父母丁未土 (line 6 of 49) and you house support of spouse 戌日 (day of reading), 辰conflict with戌, 丑conflict with 未. When the four earth appears like that, it is called the four grave yard. If the relationship document is within it, how can there be a happy outcome of resolution, unless major changes are made.

Hexagram 14 is 归魂 (soul returning). If he returns to you at present, then it is possible.

Iching is a prediction method. With no background information, this is my guess.

Hexagram 49 is 10 of wands in Tarot Card
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Tens represent the end of a cycle and the beginning of a new one, summing up, using one's experience, renewal, return to unity, totality, completed circumstances, the finish, transformation, now you've gone too far.

The Ten of Wands tarot card can also indicate a relationship that is currently undergoing conflict and miscommunication. Getting support to help you and your partner work through this difficult period could be quite helpful. However, the Ten of Wands usually indicates that this difficult time is coming to an end. All the work you have put into your relationship will soon pay off. If you and your partner can manage to work through your current issues, a new level of intimacy and closeness will follow.

Symbol- He is sexually attracted to her.
She realizes she is a Goddess.
Meaning- realization

Male experience:

As he transmutes both male and female spiritual energies into mental energy he becomes acutely aware of his sexuality. He becomes sexually attracted to her. He has no outlet for this increased energy and sexual tension and frustration result.

He is torn between his noble spiritual goals and his raw sexual needs. He tries to be both physical and spiritual at the same time. He struggles with abstract concepts like good and evil or heaven and hell and agonizes over the future of his soul. This remains a mental experience for him.

Female experience:

As she transmutes her sexual energy into spiritual energy she is struggling to regain her spirituality. She feels pulled into sensuality and worldly pleasures. She longs for these things but fears entrapment in them. She feels social pressures are confining and preventing her from having a good time.

She feels like a Goddess and has total control over her life at this point. She does what she feels like doing. She communicates easily with others and has both innocence and perceptiveness. She is irresistibly drawn toward sexuality and the God in a physical body.

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You cast this Iching reading because in the 10 of wands:
This means:
Romance: You will be in the dark about your love life, or wonder what is going on, with your lover and wish he/she would contact you and let you know.
Union: You will hope for a resurrection in your relationship, but will feel as if you are trying to raise the dead.
Friends: You are going to have a fall out with a friend or loved one whom you feel has let you down, or friends will have problem you won't know how to deal with or correct.

Revolution in hexagram 49 means:
Kama • Conflicts between you and Friend are caused by a change In. your relationship, Both of you are resisting this change, clinging to your roles and values of the immediate past. It is true that the previous structure of your relationship-the balance of give and take, dominance and submissiveness liberties and responsibilities, that existed until recently-was a comfortable one, in which loving was very easy. But changes are inevitable and they have occurred. You must go along with them. Look at your relationship with a fresh eye. Forget about past resolutions to past conflicts. Accept these changes and the new roles and new levels of communication they call for. You and Friend will naturally adjust to them. If you cannot accept them, then it is better not to cling to past joys, but realistically to accept the consequences of changes that will keep you constantly divided and in irreconcilable conflict.

Since the officer line 官鬼 (him) does not appear in hexagram 49, I wonder how can one has a successful relationship without him in the picture.

 

[squirrele]

thank you so much long yi, your explanation also helps me so much with my learning the iching, truly amazing! very much appreciated.

 

[squirrele]

I found out recently that he is married and has a baby daughter, something that he feared telling me as he thought I would leave him. His wife is now living with another man in a different country, and he is very hurt as he has no contact with his child.