Hex 20 unchanging poor communication

[goddessliss]

Hi to all on a finally sunny day,

So the story is - this guy sent me an email on an online dating site.
It is expensive and he would have paid a fair bit for the privilege of sending emails.
I did not have to pay anything.

However after a very tentative first email to me, to which I replied with interest, I didn't hear from him so after 3 days I sent him another email asking if he received my first one and if he did and he had met another girl or changed his mind that was fine I was just checking he'd received it.
Within an hour he sends another one back and apologises, says he's been busy at work, he would love to get to know me and we could meet on his day off this week.
So I replied and said that would be great and just chatted about this and that.
I then see that he's read my reply but again he hasn't responded. Hmmm.....

Why is A so poor at communicating with me

Hex 20 unchanging

Does this mean he is still thinking about it or what really??

It's not that important to me as I he hasn't given me a chance to connect with him but it's a funny thing.

would appreciate your take on Hex 20 unchanging.

By default I met another guy and we have been messaging too but we already know that we are looking for different things ie. he just wants a woman to have 'fun' with and I am looking to get to know someone and see where that takes us. Anyway we get on great and he has asked me to go hang out with him next weekend and he lives about an hour or more away.
how will it benefit me to go stay with M next weekend - seems like I should stay away from him...

Hex 17.4.5>24
Line 4 - looks like for me to keep following on the path I want and not get caught up on his - I have made it clear to him where I stand on things.
Line 5 - shows good fortune if I stick to my own path

not sure about Hex 24 though

be joyous
Liss

 

[precision grace]

I get 20 when the issue is one of contemplation. So, I'd say this guy is simply 'thinking about it'. Some people like to take their sweet time. If that sort of thing drives you nuts, now is the good time to change course.

24 is always return to your Own path 17 - the following and 17.4 seem to me to suggest exploring one's options, but 17.5 definitely suggest that to have higher standards is the nobler option and perhaps the whole thing is saying that if you go to meet M this weekend, you will have checked out this option which you already know isn't for you but were nonetheless curious about but will have found out by the end that you were right all along and will return to your own path.

 

[goddessliss]

Thks precision grace - wondering what he's thinking about exactly - whether to actually date, date me in particular or what? Anyway, I will just leave it, he will either get back to me this time or not.....

The hex 17 situation - I thought about it overnight but nah can't be bothered - so have already returned to my own path

What I am finding is that a lot of the men are happy to hang out with us women and enjoy the companionship and whatever comes from that but, to actually give of themselves or share their lives and put in any effort into maintaining a relationship - they're just not interested in that.
The last guy I was seeing, a couple of weeks back, he loved spending time with me and we got along great but he wanted EVERYTHING his way - he seemed to have an idea how the relationship should be and when I didn't just fit into that he got very uptight and sulky, yes sulky.....so moving right along.
Perhaps one day, until then I have the sisterhood, myself and all the joyous things I love doing.
What the men don't seem to understand, except for the intimacy, we already have the companionship, conversation etc. of our gf''s sadly for them that seems to be something they lack.....

have a joyous day - Liss

 

[precision grace]

glad you feel comfortable on your path And men are, I find, generally a giant pain in the backside, which is why I'm only now starting to get grumbly about being single, three years on...
But I do find that both men and women tend to want things their own way so the trick is to find the person whose way happens to be very similar to your way.. heh heh

I don't think I could ever use a dating site. It's like an introvert's worst nightmare lol Endless First dates *shiver* can't think of anything worse.. When they invent an online site where you can meet a person who you'll be able to feel instantly comfortable with as if you've been living together for the last year - That I'll sign up for

 

[goddessliss]

glad you feel comfortable on your path And men are, I find, generally a giant pain in the backside, which is why I'm only now starting to get grumbly about being single, three years on...
But I do find that both men and women tend to want things their own way so the trick is to find the person whose way happens to be very similar to your way.. heh heh

I don't think I could ever use a dating site. It's like an introvert's worst nightmare lol Endless First dates *shiver* can't think of anything worse.. When they invent an online site where you can meet a person who you'll be able to feel instantly comfortable with as if you've been living together for the last year - That I'll sign up for

Haha thanks Grace - once you get the hang of online dating and don't take is too seriously or to heart(I learnt the hard way) it is so much fun and you get to meet a lot of guys without actually going anywhere. Sure you get the Sex fiends and players but you soon sort them out!!!

Anyway Mr. Hex 20 just sent me a msge and asked me to ring him and gave me his number.

How will it benefit me to ring him - Hex 53.6>39

Gradual progress while following what is correct brings wesome things...Think Hex 39 Obstruction was whatever his mindset maybe have been - or it may have just been work as he mentioned in his email today is his Friday


So the other guy who asked me to go hang out with him - I made an excuse why I couldn't drive to his town so he said he would drive to mine - oops! I do like him but as I said we're not really wanting the same thing and just a feeling that we're not really suited -

How will it benefit me to encourage M to come to my town to hang out with me

Hex 35.4>23

Line 4 - this doesn't look like a benefit at all really - it seems to me a meeting should not take place and I should tell him that - a shame cause we have fun in cyberspace.

thks
Liss

 

[goddessliss]

Haha thanks Anyway Mr. Hex 20 just sent me a msge and asked me to ring him and gave me his number.

How will it benefit me to ring him - Hex 53.6>39

Gradual progress while following what is correct brings wesome things...Think Hex 39 Obstruction was whatever his mindset maybe have been - or it may have just been work as he mentioned in his email today is his Friday


thks
Liss

We went on a date today - but nothing there to build a relationship on but I liked him enough for us to hang out some time. He's not really interested in a relationship anyway just looking for friendship. x