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Hex 22 "Grace" - can I make this work for me?

strawberry_blood

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Dear All,

Couldn't help but ask for your insight into this - the hex itself seems to offer a straightforward answer, but perhaps there's more than meets my eye here? :confused:

Question: can I make this new love relationship work for me? (Currently my new b/f is irritating me more and more...argggh...:rant:I'm newly on the Pill, so suspect a good part of this is hormonal, but still - instead of feeling blissful, find myself winding up tighter and tighter. Thoughts of splitting up keep crossing my mind, I wonder: can I make this work for me or is it a lost cause and I'm better off cutting loose?).

Hex 22 seems to say yes, you'll be able to make this work for you by being gentle and focusing on the good things about this relationship.

Any other thoughts? Your input is valued, as ever.:bows:
 

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Don't mind single hexes . They are very general, wait few more hours/days and retoss.

Why do you want to make it work? If the shoe doesn't fit are you still wearing it ?

p.s. maybe grace means to leave things as they are, and not fight to change them
 
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Being Something for Someone

Question: can I make this new love relationship work for me?
The reading is suggesting that Diplomacy and Adornment will make it work for you. There is no place on the reading which helps you to decide if the relationship if worth working for...the answer is just the method suggested which will make it work.

But perhaps you need to think about what it means that "it works for you."

Here, from the WikiWing Oracle for H22, with bold text added by me:

"‘Beauty. Creating success.
Small harvest in having a direction to go.’

"A direction to go brings harvest because self-expression needs a purpose – being someone for someone/ something. A teacher for pupils, a farmer for hungry people, a medicinal plant for illnesses. You’re making an image of yourself (or whatever you’re working on); the direction means having some idea what it’s for. Without that, probably no harvest at all.

It only brings a small harvest because just being something for someone is not sufficient force by itself to bring about significant results. It can’t guarantee that the other person will respond, or that you’ll follow through, or that your purpose will be fulfilled. It’s only a first step in any direction. And no one image expresses the whole person."

Tiger
 

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Dear All,

Couldn't help but ask for your insight into this - the hex itself seems to offer a straightforward answer, but perhaps there's more than meets my eye here? :confused:

Question: can I make this new love relationship work for me? (Currently my new b/f is irritating me more and more...argggh...:rant:I'm newly on the Pill, so suspect a good part of this is hormonal, but still - instead of feeling blissful, find myself winding up tighter and tighter. Thoughts of splitting up keep crossing my mind, I wonder: can I make this work for me or is it a lost cause and I'm better off cutting loose?).

Hex 22 seems to say yes, you'll be able to make this work for you by being gentle and focusing on the good things about this relationship.

Any other thoughts? Your input is valued, as ever.:bows:

One way to look at 22 is that it is a kind of festivity, a wedding, where there is a lot of adorning and decoration. It is about a man who is getting married. The first line he walks out of a carriage and he has decorated his toes. The second line he is decorating his beard. In the third line, his beard is luxuriant and moist. In the fourth line, there is the amusement of using white horses for the ritual abduction of the bride. In the fifth the bride's family decorated made a nice place for the wedding, but there were very few gifts. The top line is a lovely adornment or new beginning, possibly a baby on the way. Of course, it is only somewhat good, because marriage, after all, is a rather problematical thing. This gua has a good sense of humor about the situation. You should do the same.

It's about keeping the proper etiquette. It tells you not to do a big thing about this. Don't do anything big, and you'll get a small, favorable path to where you are going.

 

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Start by not using the word Grace to understand 22. It's misleading.
There is a difference in near vision and far vision. 22 is near vision.
It doesn't see the larger picture, hence the advice in the Image.
Nearsight isn't a bad thing, like shorstightedness, but you need more
comprehensive understanding for your bigger decisions.
 

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Question: Can I Make this new love relationship work for me?

In a word No.

The guy in question is only an "ornament", something to hang on your arm, therefore not important in the bigger scheme of things.
 

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Dear All,

Thank you very much for all your input - it is most helpful! I feel a lot calmer now, too :)
 

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