Hex 41.2.3.4>30

[spiralcloud]

Hi all,
I have been seeing this man who recently came out of a long term relationship. It hasn't been easy for him coping with the break up, but we started our fling thinking it would be just that, considering that I have also recently ended a relationship. I am however getting more involved than I had planned so asked IC about his feelings for me and got 41.2.3.4 > 30, but cannot really decide whether is good or bad. Your help will be much appreciated!!:bows:

 

[spiralcloud]

I just asked what I could do to remove obstacles between us and got 64.3 > 50. Any insights? I'm fearing the worst and since I had my heart completely trashed in my last relationship I am considering cutting my losses... neither of us seems ready for a relationship. I don't know. I thought asking another question would make things clearer. no, not really.
Thank you in advance for your time and enlightenment!:bows:

 

[gato]

I have to admit ....
"When one man journeys alone, He finds a companion.",
"If a man decreases his faults,It makes the other hasten to come and rejoice."
i perfectly understand this, is just so clear...

"getting more involved than I had planned". this, however, is a complete mystery to me. what you mean by plan??? like a norm or percent? just go with the flow, listen to the music, decrease your faults

 

[spiralcloud]

Thanks for taking the time to help me with this Gato.
I meant planned as in I knew his breakup was too recent, he is still suffering and I am scared! lol and drawing on your username which in Portuguese means cat, I say that a scalded cat dreads cold water!
I got a bit confused having three changing lines and the mention of three people decreasing by one in 41.3, which made me consider that I would be this -1. But then when you wrote it, it seemed clear to me too.
Any insights on crossing the great water?
Once again thank you so much for your comments!
:bows:

 

[gato]

64.3 reinforce 41-30 as it's meaning is "pay close attention (but do not act yet) a future possibility is being born"

 

[spiralcloud]

Thank you Gato!
I do not have the thank you button...