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Hex 48 unchanging - how should I cope with his behaviour

River1980

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I asked yi about insights on how to cope with X and his behaviour towards me.

There is someone in my life who is purposely upseting me. I have cut off all contact with them but they work near me so I still see them around. I am trying not to be hurt by their actions but it does affect me.

What is hex 48 trying to tell me.
 

julie

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To draw on your own internal reservoirs of equanimity in face of it.
 

canislulu

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The image for Hexagram 48 states that the noble one "toils with the people encouraging them to help on another."
I cannot imagine how you can help someone who is purposely upsetting you. Cutting off contact seems to be one way to help them stop upsetting you. How does "seeing them around" upset you? Do you feel there is a real threat to your well being in some way?

If you were to brainstorm a list of guess at your own answer to the question --- what are options for coping in this situation?
 

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