Hex 49 - Revolution! 2nd time in a row...

[MethodNix]

Hello again!
First of all, thank you all once more for your sharings and interpretations. I'm learning so much about the ways to analyze my readings. This time I have an interesting outcome and I would really like to hear your thoughts on it.

It's about a man I fancy and with whom I had some really mild flirts exchangning and had a meeting set up about some business he could help me with (but we are not working together - I just asked for help and he gladly wanted to). Before the meeting I asked Yi what could happen these days between us in a romantic way and got 33.1.6 to 49.
Withdrawal to get to the goal. Line 1 to refrain from going backwards, and line 6 to abstain from work and everything will be fruitful. And Revolution as a result - great success.

Anyways, I went to the meeting and had a productive talk but also mixed it up with casual stuff. Pretty positive, I think.

Afterward I asked Yi what will happen this month concerning our relationship and got 21.3.5.6 to 49. This time with three moving lines it's a bit more complicated... I really like the picture of power and beauty / thunder and lightning but... line 1 - I will make some trouble but it wouldn't bother me long, line 5 - if I insist on my plans there will be hardship wor which I won't be blamed and 6 - My judgement is off. Again resulting with 49. Revolution.

Revolution in my ways is what I've been needing, but I can't figure if it includes him or is it just me?

 

[Changstein]

What will happen this month concerning your relationship? You either move past the superficial pleasantries and sink your teeth in (21), get to know each other on a level that's more than skin deep (49). You chew on the gristle, and find rot in the middle, and also gold: some nasty qualities you were't expecting perhaps, and also some really wonderful qualities you didn't know were there. And you take the good with the bad. This might not be easy, it may even be painful. But it's a beautiful possibility indeed.
Or, you cover your ears: you continue with the casual flirting, and miss the opportunity to discover who he really is on the inside. That would be a pity.

In this particular case I think it might help to consider 49 (Ge) in the sense of a skin. The outward personas we present to others, the roles we act out and the faces we put on that can be peeled away.

Also, while I see how you might derive "going backwards" and "abstaining from work" from Withdrawl, In the context of a new relationship it probably makes more sense to understand it as keeping a comfortable distance, playing it cool. With lines 1 and 6 especially, feeling out the situation carefully before compromising yourself, committing yourself or placing yourself in a vulnerable position. Which dovetails nicely with the 21.3.5.6 reading.

 

[MethodNix]

What will happen this month concerning your relationship? You either move past the superficial pleasantries and sink your teeth in (21), get to know each other on a level that's more than skin deep (49). You chew on the gristle, and find rot in the middle, and also gold: some nasty qualities you were't expecting perhaps, and also some really wonderful qualities you didn't know were there. And you take the good with the bad. This might not be easy, it may even be painful. But it's a beautiful possibility indeed.
Or, you cover your ears: you continue with the casual flirting, and miss the opportunity to discover who he really is on the inside. That would be a pity.

In this particular case I think it might help to consider 49 (Ge) in the sense of a skin. The outward personas we present to others, the roles we act out and the faces we put on that can be peeled away.

Also, while I see how you might derive "going backwards" and "abstaining from work" from Withdrawl, In the context of a new relationship it probably makes more sense to understand it as keeping a comfortable distance, playing it cool. With lines 1 and 6 especially, feeling out the situation carefully before compromising yourself, committing yourself or placing yourself in a vulnerable position. Which dovetails nicely with the 21.3.5.6 reading.

What a wonderful interpreation! Thank you Changstein!

When I talk to Yi, it's like talking to my girlfriends. The difference is that Yi is in tune with energies floating around and no interest to make things prettier, has no personal analogies to relate while advising and has no gain out of the story or further actions. That's why I'm always a bit careful with interpreting my own readings not to get my hopes up. Sometimes you hear what you want to hear (interpret what suits your wishes).

I thought the withdrawal and the poor judgement on my behalf could be a warning, because I really don't know anything personal about this man except that he's nice and seems normal with his feet on the ground and a good sense of humor. Now it looks like a good start. Wonder what he thinks about me?

But I couldn't relate the warning with revolution - or molting as you called it, I really like the picture now. I would really like us to put the masks down and get to know the good and the bad - we all have both sides, right?

I might ask Yi what action can I do to achieve that. Maybe I'll continue writing on this thread about results.

 

[MethodNix]

Hi, guys! This thread could easily be my type of diary for this man, let's call him X, I was talking about, so I'm back to make an update.

I've actually been seeing another man last few days, but I can't stop thinking about the beautiful possibility Yi stressed out for me in previous readings. And I've seen X at the usual place and texted a few times, but everthing is really just nice as usual with no progress. So, I asked Yi what will happen by the end of the month between us and got 42 unchanging - increase or gain!
For the question what should I do for him to ask me out on a date - 19 unchanging - approach. And the last question was how should I approach him to result in a relationship - 26 unchanging - controlled power or grat nourisher.

So, the possibility is definitley in the air and to achieve the gain Yi's talking about every action should take place at the right time. Ugh. I'm reading this in a way I should definitley make the first move which is hard for me because I'm an oldfashioned girl concerning these things... But Yi made it's judgement. The warning about unfortunate things in september could be that potential relationship won't last forever but also I've seen the warning as a misfortune due to not cating upon the clear reading as this one.
And the last one gets me confused a bit. Controlling my power? What kind of power do I have? The reading definitley says I should express my gratitude (he helped me the other day so it makes sense) and maybe take him out (again me taking him out... ughh). Yi says that the firm is increasing and expresses respect to the valued.

I'd hate to miss out on all the good that is folating in here. What to do exactly?