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What will happen this month concerning your relationship? You either move past the superficial pleasantries and sink your teeth in (21), get to know each other on a level that's more than skin deep (49). You chew on the gristle, and find rot in the middle, and also gold: some nasty qualities you were't expecting perhaps, and also some really wonderful qualities you didn't know were there. And you take the good with the bad. This might not be easy, it may even be painful. But it's a beautiful possibility indeed.
Or, you cover your ears: you continue with the casual flirting, and miss the opportunity to discover who he really is on the inside. That would be a pity.
In this particular case I think it might help to consider 49 (Ge) in the sense of a skin. The outward personas we present to others, the roles we act out and the faces we put on that can be peeled away.
Also, while I see how you might derive "going backwards" and "abstaining from work" from Withdrawl, In the context of a new relationship it probably makes more sense to understand it as keeping a comfortable distance, playing it cool. With lines 1 and 6 especially, feeling out the situation carefully before compromising yourself, committing yourself or placing yourself in a vulnerable position. Which dovetails nicely with the 21.3.5.6 reading.
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