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In the context of your situation Yi is advocating that personal reflection will bring a new perspective for you and this rebalancing will allow you to move forward in a positive direction to be determined for you by you.Hi my key,
Thanks for your input. Are you able to explain further in the context of my situation?
Hi Hermit,Hi @lexxmexx, could you share the reason(s) she gave you of why she did not want to continue the relationship? In my experience, third lines are about things that already happened, in this case, rupture. It is hard to accept the break up but what is the alternative? Never seen an ex partner respond positively to pleading. It produces the opposite effect. And by the way, what do you think made her want to end the relationship?
Hi Hermit,
Her reason was that I had neglected her and claimed that I had never cherished her. I am going through mid life crisis at the moment and have a lot of things in my mind, I just want to have some quiet time to myself. This had happened 3 years before for the same reason but we patched up, now it happened again.
I thought 51.3 was referring to my shock of her decision to leave me and 55 is an optimistic outcome where we patched up again. It has been a week and things are not looking good, she had been giving me cold shoulder and refused to talk to me. Looks like I had misinterpreted it and gave myself false hopes.
Hi Rosada,Status of relationship?
51.3 - 55.
You are 51. Shocked to learn your relationship has reached 55. The Peak.
Line 51.3 urges you to do all you can to bring things up to date with your friend so you don’t spend over long morning the past but can smoothly move ahead.
By bringing things up to date I think this can mean anything from fulfilling past promises - like returning library books or changing the lightbulbs - to speaking very honestly with each other so you truly understand what it was all about and if there’s anything that needs to be said or done so you can truly wish each other well and move on.
Insidentally. Saturn and Pluto are changing signs this month - time for a major shift in viewpoints and Pluto into Aquarius particularly accentuates the urge to be free of constraints. You may find the two of you actually want to continue the partnership if you’re not seeing each other 24/7!
Hi Hermit,
I know I had been clouded with too much frustrations in life that I had vented it all on her when she was innocent and did not deserve any of my nonsense. I feel very repentant and tried to seek her forgiveness but all in vain.
Yes, I am very tempted to ask IC on what to do win her love back but I am sure I will not get a positive answer or something cryptic who will not make any sense to me.
Notice this line has turned up as a prediction that there will be no cause for the melancholy or weariness experienced around the question. It's come up when I've almost given up on something, and then suddenly out of the blue things start to happen ! The 'revive' is what this feels like. It is like a shot of caffeine, wake up, things are happening, do not despair, get going ! Trojina
I can't see what connection that has to 51.3. Nor can I see why the 'IC maybe just a toy for aliens'. Obviously the I Ching is for humans I doubt it would be that much use for aliens who don't know what horses and carriages and second wives and farmers are. That is unless aliens also have all those things on their planet too.Get clarity. Disengage, let gracefully go and accept that when something has been neglected, it will transform into something not willing to keep its original intention. That could be also you. When the deal is dead, the deal is dead so to speak. You know in your heart you won´t trade anymore. thats the first step to selfembracing unconditional love we need when grieving romantic love. Still, I am sure there is a possibility you will come back to IC and cast over again, maybe even to see how to manipulate the situation. Hope is magical in its essence. Have fun. But be warned. You are playing with fire. The mind is not something to play with. IC maybe just a toy for aliens. But not your mind. That is human. Cherish it. It will get you through.
If you are listening to the I Ching itself then it's certainly not a pessimistic answer that's for sure !I thought 51.3 was referring to my shock of her decision to leave me and 55 is an optimistic outcome where we patched up again. It has been a week and things are not looking good, she had been giving me cold shoulder and refused to talk to me. Looks like I had misinterpreted it and gave myself false hopes.
23.6 was not cast the answer was 51.3.Interesting! While I was just thinking about this reading in the back of my mind I started hearing The Beatles’ “She’s Got a Ticket to Ride”. The lyrics seem to capture the feeling of 23.6!
But you haven't done a reading here yet on this thread. You have given advice about studying sadness that has no connection to the reading. You offer more feedback but haven't given a reading and then suggest more casts having not interpreted the first castFind the one sad love song you feel identified with and study what it says. Art, especially music is the shaman´s way back into the heart, its the path of healing. Study your sadness, accept its friendship and learn all you can about yourself. When on this path of grief, self rejection or anger at the other is the easiest way to get lost. Study you sadness for at least a month. Study your sadness until you feel you know what to improve in your life. Then cast again. I will give you some feedback, I am still around.
But you haven't done a reading here yet on this thread. You have given advice about studying sadness that has no connection to the reading. You offer more feedback but haven't given a reading and then suggest more casts having not interpreted the first cast
Interesting! While I was just thinking about this reading and how you’ve mentioned your sadness and her seeming indifference, in the back of my mind I started hearing The Beatles’ “She’s Got a Ticket to Ride”. The lyrics seem to capture the feeling of 23.6 perfectly!
No, I don’t think of this song as being personal. I was mentioning it because it came to mind as I was reading about 23.6 with it’s reference to the noble one having a carriage and this song talks about the girl having “a ticket to ride” so she has a carriage. Plus Wilhelms comments that this line has a feeling of sadness to it and the song lyrics refer to feeling sad. Connecting a song lyric with a hexagram is a fun game. Some while back we had a column where people posted hexagram lines and song lyrics they felt matched. Not sure what happened to it…
My sad songs - “I’d really like to see you tonight”, “I’d like to get to know you”, “Leaving on a Jet Plane” and “Homeward Bound.” Yours?
I was very heartbroken and did another casting a few days later to inquire about since she is seeing someone, does that mean that this marked the end of our relationship. I received 36.1.3.4 (Brightness Hiding) to 16 (Enthusiasm). From what I had gathered, IC was telling me that I was in pain in finding out what had been happening, who the third part was and advised me to get a hold of myself.
I was initially thinking of letting it go and not pursue the matter or confront her but she keep pushing me to find other partners. That was when I said I knew she was seeing someone and don't keep pushing me to someone to lessen her guilt. A series of quarrels had taken place the next few days and I have decided that there is no more hope in this relationship and to let her go.
After that, we had a peaceful discussion and agreed that we should go own ways but remain as friends.
Today, I did another casting to inquire about the current status of our relationship and received 47.2.5 (Oppression) to again, changes to 16. I had mixed feelings about this decision. She used to be very possessive and did not like me to speak to other ladies, so there is a sense of relief and I am getting back my freedom, but there is still the poignant feeling about the separation.
So, I guess hex 16 is an indication that things might be improving whatever that is?
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