hex 51 unchanged

[dragona]

Hello
a quick check for the experts (creating dependence, am afraid )
The lady has feelings still for the man who detached himself and she wants to know does he feel the same?
I suggested I will ask how M. sees W. and got 51 unchanged...
Now, that`s pretty powerful answer! Arousal, shock!
But other that the obvious - that it is and powerful, sexually potent encounter, I am not sure if that state is referring to her or him. Further more, the hex speaks of the need to set one`s life in order and I know the lady is working on it but also wonder if that could be the reason for him to redraw?
Deeper insight would be helpful, from my experience, hex 51 would only mean realization of some unpleasant sort.
Thank you :bows:

 

[foxx777]

Hello
a quick check for the experts (creating dependence, am afraid )
The lady has feelings still for the man who detached himself and she wants to know does he feel the same?
I suggested I will ask how M. sees W. and got 51 unchanged...
Now, that`s pretty powerful answer! Arousal, shock!
But other that the obvious - that it is and powerful, sexually potent encounter, I am not sure if that state is referring to her or him. Further more, the hex speaks of the need to set one`s life in order and I know the lady is working on it but also wonder if that could be the reason for him to redraw?
Deeper insight would be helpful, from my experience, hex 51 would only mean realization of some unpleasant sort.
Thank you :bows:

I do not think 51 has to be unpleasant shock or arousal.

Or at least:

that which is disturbing, perplexing, and shaking at the onset may become pleasant and empowering if one does not "let go the sacrificial ladle" and if one is "spurred to action".

I would imagine 51 refers to an arousal on both sides. It is double thunder. The shock reverberates for miles.

One has dipped the ladle into the sacrifical wine. Then, boom, boom----thunder! One must remain composed, and dare not spill the wine. The ceremony must progress with dignity...

Of course, if one wants to simplify matters, one can always look to Berkers:

51. Shock
Shock.
Progressing.
A shock comes, fright, fright!
Laughing and talking, ha, ha!
The shock startled in a hundred li,
but one did not lose the ladle of sacrificial wine.

There is a shock that has a lot of impact. Although one is alarmed by the shock, there is no real harm done. When it's over one might even look back and make fun of it. Notwithstanding it's force one does not allow it to break one's concentration.
(100 li is about 40 kilometer or 25 miles.)

(No changing lines.)

:bows:

 

[dragona]

Thanks, well, that was my experience with hex 51 so far...lucky,this is not about me then...
good point, thunder on both sides...but he pulled back, said he wants to be detached "for a while"..so she is like
but to me this suggests there still may be hope there...perhaps now we could ask further, more concrete question.