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donjuan said:I asked if the future includes her and I marrying each other. The Yi answered with hexagram 54.4 changing to 19. Don.
willowfox said:I forgot to mention that the text for hex 19 mentions that your acquaintance with this lady will be all over by June next year.
willowfox said:I forgot to mention that the text for hex 19 mentions that your acquaintance with this lady will be all over by June next year.
Mebbe he is running in circles, I don't know, but it seems to me that the point being made is that he is not in tune with the demands of the natural cycle of relationships here. I think we are making the same point as a conclusion, and perhaps you've intuited that conclusion without making clear the connections between the text and the situation in question??willowfox said:"Hilary does not say that this relationship specifically is cyclic, I think, rather that it is part of a cycle."
It is his behaviour that is cyclic, he is running in a circle looking for Miss Right.
donjuan said:Hello everyone,
Thank you all, for such a great dialogue about this topic. I have learned much, reading all of your comments and input.
The "take home" message that I have gained from this conversation is that I really need to stop trying to accomplish a goal, or reach a finish line, or "harvest a crop" when it comes to this relationship. Being a goal-oriented person, I can see how I have taken the same perspective wrt to this relationship. Also, being one who HATES uncertainty, I would obviously like to have a clear answer about the outcome of the relationship. But, I realize, that is not possible. Truly, is it ever possible for any relationship/friendship/venture, etc?
Again, I thank you for all your insight. It gave me a new perspective about this relationship. Based on this, I am going to approach things with a much more "laid back" attitude. Not that it means I am going to neglect her, or I, but that I will let things take their own course, and not try to "force" things. If I were to draw a metaphor, I will treat the both of us at flowing rivers, taking our own paths, moving naturally along the path of least resistance.
Who knows? Perhaps our paths will never "merge". But then again, they might.....but it has to happen naturally, not due to someone forcing it to happen.
After all, the best friendships are those that are natural, comfortable and unforced.
Many, many thanks to all of you.....
My warmest regards,
Don.
hilary said:Me, too.
(Bruce, I can understand your raised eyebrow at 19's 'supreme success'. If you need things to come together now, then Nearing is not such good news. Silly example: if I'm asking about a tennis match (my favourite way of practising), I expect the 19 competitor might be runner-up.)
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