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hereiam

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Morning all,

This last weekend I confessed to a man I've known for four years that I am and have been in love with him for a long time. He told me "I blew his mind" and that he "needs to think now". He told me I was "an amazing woman and is privileged to know me" as he does. Anyway, since then I have not heard from him. I am scared I'll never hear from him again and all that other negative stuff I get my mind into. I am so in love with him and this is painful not knowing if/when I'll hear from him again. I don't feel like I need to say anything else to him right now. So I did an online I Ching reading.
My question was: Will he contact me again soon?

It said: "The present is embodied in Hexagram 61 - Chung Fu Inner Truth.
Inner truth moves even pigs and fish, and leads to good fortune. There will be advantage in crossing the great stream. There will be advantage in being firm and correct.

The first (bottommost) line, undivided, shows its subject resting in himself. There will be good fortune. If he sought to any other, he would not find rest.

The situation is evolving slowly, and Yin (the passive feminine force) is gaining ground."

It seems like it is saying just what he's doing: resting/thinking in himself and yes it is evolving slowly.

Then it goes on to say: "The future is embodied in Hexagram 59 - Huan (Dissolution): There will be progress and success. The king goes to his ancestral temple, and it will be advantageous to cross the great stream. It will be advantageous to be firm and correct.

The things most apparent, those above and in front, are embodied by the upper trigram Sun (Wind), which represents penetration and following.

The things least apparent, those below and behind, are embodied by the lower trigram Tui (Lake), which is transforming into K'an (Water). As part of this process, joy, pleasure, and attraction are giving way to danger and the unknown."

So I am sitting here scratching my head. The not knowing is tearing me up. It is hard enough knowing how I feel about him then not knowing if I'll hear from him again. I just want to move on if it is not meant to be or what have you though it is difficult because I think of him so much.

Can anyone help?
 

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Will he contact me again soon?
61.1 > 59


Bradford has

Readiness is promising
Presuming more is no comfort

I think you will have to wait, although you did the right thing. It worked for Ruth. 59 suggests he is in a fog (Wind + Water) at the moment and needs a period of adjustment.
 

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yes will contact you soon .. be prepared
 

hereiam

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Yes. He did.
But it was stops and starts. Our communication was never good. He's hard to communicate with. He doesnt want a thing to do with feelings.
Last year I told him to leave me alone. We could never seem to get anything off the ground and I was tired of the way he was treating me. So for my sanity and well being I told him to go away. He was taken aback but he's respected my choice.
 

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Old thread, but thank you for updating. This is such a brilliant illustration of 61.1>59, which I have come to understand as "inner peace should be untroubled by external influences. Relating with that person would only bring anxiety and disturb inner peace. Dissolve expectations, GF". Interesting that it played out over several years.
 

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