Hexagram 18

[Mylife]

Hi girls/ guys, I m getting married next month And there is something which disturbs me. I enter in the marriage with a house of £340 which was fully in my name but recently I remortgage with my fiancé/ husband to be and we both become owners of the house. I m worry that in case of divorce I can lose part of the house. I did the oracle asking if at any time in the future I can will lose the house because of my husband (divorce where he wants to get part of it) and I got as a result the 18 without changes in lines. Could anyone interpreted what it means? Thank you so much xxxx

 

[rosada]

18. Working on What Has Been Spoiled emphasizes the importance of bringing things out in the open so any festering difficulties can be resolved (re-solved, as in finding a new solution).
In applying this to your concerns about your arrangement with your husband to be i believe you are being encouraged to bring your concerns out in the open with your husband. When we are young and romantic discussing the possibility of divorce seems outrageous but truly discussing these issues is simply the adult way of dealing with life. If you are feeling awkward about bringing this up with your fiancé you might make out a check list of things that need to be handled now so it doesn't feel like such a taboo subject.
Possible things on your list:
Make out your wills. An even more taboo subject but it's gotta be done sometime so you might as well do it now.
Create a list of your various computer passwords.
Prenupt - an agreement for how things will be divided in case you decide to divorce. You'll probably be seeing a lawyer to make out your wills so this would be a good time to have the lawyer also help you with this.

Having this talk now when you are both feeling strong and optimistic will not only be easier than at any other time but also it will give you good practice for communicating calmly in the future when other tough subjects need to be brought up ("Honey, I forgot to get toilet paper..")

Best wishes for your long happy life together!
rosada

 

[Mylife]

Thank you so much rosada Based on the 18 you say that I should talk to him but I m not sure I will do it. I don’t want to bring discomfort in our relationship. I know things will change once kids arrive so I will be on the safe side. Due to the fact that all the funny thoughts I have could happen because of a divorce then I asked the oracle if it sees any divorce on our marriage and the result was 55.1 changing in 62. How do you see this answer? What does it mean?Thanks in advance for your help ��

 

[Mylife]

Thank you so much rosada Based on the 18 you say that I should talk to him but I m not sure I will do it. I don’t want to bring discomfort in our relationship. I know things will change once kids arrive so I will be on the safe side. Due to the fact that all the funny thoughts I have could happen because of a divorce then I asked the oracle if it sees any divorce on our marriage and the result was 55.1 changing in 62. How do you see this answer? What does it mean?Thanks in advance for your help