Hexagram 31.2.3.5.6>64 How do I feel about my boyfriend?

[themulberrytree]

I don't want to give any personal information, so here we have it.
I'll give personal information via messaging.

 

[Tohpol]

Seems like the Yi is giving exactly what you asked for which is an image of how you feel: attracted / conflicted / ineffectual inner considerings and things which need to be resolved.

 

[themulberrytree]

Does the Yi offer a sort of resolution?
I read it over and felt that the Yi offered that I remain calm in every line except line 5. What is the difference in line 5?

 

[Tohpol]

Line 5 - at least in my own experience - has reminded me that there is some kind of illusion present. Are you making a conscious choice, or are your choices muddied with all kinds of unconscious fears and reactions? Perhaps you need to discover a quiet place within so that once you've gained some clarity then you'll be able to make some decisions as to how you can move forward.

 

[themulberrytree]

What if I got hexagram 33.4.5.6>15 on how to resolve these problems/make the relationship work?
I know you didn't sign up for this one, but if anyone feels like responding... I asked a few questions, but I feel like these are the only two that have counted. The rest are repeats. However, I forget how I worded this question.

 

[Trojina]

31.5 is where one knows one's own mind very deep down and it isn't buffeted by outer attractions or reactions. You asked what you felt ? Well 31.5 shows you know precisely how you feel down. Parts of you are being yanked all over the place but there's a part of you that isn't.

33.4.5.6>15 shows pragmatism. Is it ever going to work ? Can you 'make it work'...mmm to me it looks like the resolution is simple and sensible (15) Withdraw from it (33)

 

[themulberrytree]

From the problem or from the relationship?

 

[Trojina]

whichever you think it applies to. I don't know what the problem is. I'd assume the relationship is what to withdraw from...but to be honest readings and interpretation do not exist in a vaccum. It is impossible to say 'this reading means X' with no context...the reading must be understood within the context.

 

[themulberrytree]

Could I PM you?

 

[Trojina]

Sorry no, it gets like doing loads of work for free. But maybe someone else would be happy to look at your reading privately.

 

[themulberrytree]

Thanks, anyway.

 

[themulberrytree]

Hey, I ended my relationship with my boyfriend.

In terms of Hexagram 33.4.5.6, it was not as friendly a retreat as it could have been, perhaps through some fault of my own, but it will serve to further.