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I asked the question "is my husband cheating and disloyal to me???" I got 36.5( 36 changing to 63). Please advise...
 

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"is my husband cheating and disloyal to me???" I got 36.5 > 63.

Even though you are asking about your husband the answer is directly addressing you.

It says that your husband is acting very badly toward you at the moment, and your home life is quite unpleasant and the answer is telling you to put up with the difficulties for the time being, keep persevering even though you hate the situation and don't cause any fights or similar upheavals in your day to day affairs with him. Keep your inner spirit burning and your determination to win this problem because given time your situation will indeed improve. So bide your time and see what happens.

It does not suggest that he has another woman, it just suggests that he is being mean and spiteful.
 

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You know, very often Willowfox and I give our separate interpretations of stuff in this forum, most times me agreeing with most of what she says but I chime in with my take on it cuz I think the questioner might benefit from more than one voice. But in this case, I think she's got it just so right that all I want to do it say: yeah, that's it.
 

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I asked the question "is my husband cheating and disloyal to me???" I got 36.5( 36 changing to 63). Please advise...

I'd never advise trying someone by the I Ching. This answer could mean a number of things in the situation - even that he feels misundertood by you. I don't think you can get a hard and fast answer here - or at least i think it would be stupid to take it without concrete evidence aswell.
 

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I'd never advise trying someone by the I Ching. This answer could mean a number of things in the situation - even that he feels misundertood by you. I don't think you can get a hard and fast answer here - or at least i think it would be stupid to take it without concrete evidence aswell.

That's right, and that's my take generally on using the Yi generally to get secret information about other people. But I think the oracle's given the questioner a picture of HER position in this situation - she's like the prince in 36.5 who's keeping his head down because he's so terribly and dangerously close to the negative force of the ruler. It's like the Yi's saying to her: "As for your question about your husband, think of the situation as being like this..."
 

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I think that if you have good reason to think your husband is cheating, this hexagram is affirming it for you. 36 is an astute representation for clandestine affairs. and yes, it is about you, because it is telling you to believe in yourself even tho you are being invalidated.
I think it could also be seen as saying trust your intuitions.
 

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I think that if you have good reason to think your husband is cheating, this hexagram is affirming it for you. 36 is an astute representation for clandestine affairs. and yes, it is about you, because it is telling you to believe in yourself even tho you are being invalidated.
I think it could also be seen as saying trust your intuitions.

i agree.
 

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