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der_wanderer

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Its about a person who is dealing with a lot of stress. There has been plenty of sh... going on in her family and relationships in general. As she is a good hearted person, I want to help her if I can.

But there is the problem: if I care to much, its makes her feel uncomfortable as well - cause she isn't used to it. So the question i have asked is about the right balance of dealing with her.

How can i play a productive role in her life?

got 48.3.6

any insights?
 

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Hi there.
48,3,6 - 59

Have you conducted any previous readings about this person? If yes, then could you please give us the last one received. If not then it gives a different angle to any interpretation of this present reading.
 

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yes i did

how should i behave properly towards her? 42.3.5 to 22

OK 48,3,6 in your present reading is telling you that you haven't absorbed the information given to you previously, but if you do you'll find the answer to your question.

42,3 is telling you that within a positive overall context, the relationship is going through a degree of difficulty. This could be as simple as she isn't responding to your attention or advice. You are urged to maintain a balanced position, neither approach nor withdraw, simply wait for an appropriate opening to occur and then go half-way with genuine sincerity - it is rarely appropriate to diminish oneself in seeking to help others. 42,5 is telling you that if you can uphold a sincere, balanced path your genuine sincerity will be recognised and the relationship will grow, but be careful - it is never appropriate to crowd anyone's sense of self determination or self identity.
The parallel nuclear progression to 42,3,5 - 22 is 23,2,4,6 - 40. This is telling you that there is a latent danger of self-diminuation, but if you can recognise this you will find the potential for self-deliverance well within your means.
Hope this helps.
Peter
 

der_wanderer

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yeah...this does help

and yes i haven't absorbed the information given to me :) i had no clou

thank you peter
 

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I may be wrong, but 48.3 seems to imply that she will not welcome your participation in her troubles. I take it that she doesn't appreciate the I Ching or doesn't understand what it is. Your skills will go unused. If she does come around to understand that you genuinely want to help her and can help her, then all will benefit.
:)
 

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well concerning my participation...its always a yes-no thing

the biggest problem between us is, that she is not able to see me due to panic attacks

i hope 12.4 to 20 indicates a breakthrough...anyway thank you for your insights
 

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after two months i decided that its time for a status update

how should i behave properly towards her? 15.3.5 to 8

i read this as...now its the time to push matters

am i wrong?

any insights appreciated
 

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I read your 15.3.5>8 as sometimes you stand by someone even when they say they don't want help.

The trick to _really_ helping someone, really serving someone is to disappear, be transparent.
As if you aren't even doing anything or maybe they are actually helping you out. No one wants to feel obligated, or indebted. Especially if they can't even take care of themselves, now they have to figure out how to serve someone else, or worse comply with the agenda of another or feel guilt, become entangled this way?

As for people with panic attacks, my experience with children, and with adults with mental illness alike is keep their blood sugar up and feed them, keep them company and make sure they are eating. Seems simple but it really is a big deal emotionally. For me too!

- LL
 

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