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On top of starting a new job lots of things have been happening in my personal life to which my employees are aware of and inevitably I became quite unwell with a throat infection.

Every time someone can't make it to work for whatever reason they ring me to work and not once have I said no even going in when I was unwell.
They continually give me feed back telling me the parents, the school and them as employers are very happy with my work. They have been given feed back about me in particular from parents who are very happy with me looking after their children even though there are another 3 main employees that work with me.
I've made a complaint about 3 children who's behaviour was out of control and the employers spoke with the children and sorted it as per the policy the employers had set up.
However I've been having a problem with one of my peers and felt I needed to speak up about it and said I'm not sure if I'm able to work with her as things stand. All of a sudden my employees have given me a week off, replacing my shifts with the woman I complained about.

Why have my employees given me a week off -
Hex 48 unchanging

They feel my resourcefulness has run dry.

Show me a pic of me losing my job -
Hex 38 unchanging
Well yes there's opposing viewpoints - perhaps it's between the 2 bosses or perhaps it's because my peer and I both work completely differently.

What do I need to know about my working life in general -
Hex 18.5>57

Looks like things will perhaps be looked at and a couple of changes taking place.

How will the director respond to my request for a job with her -
Hex 50.6>32

Well now that looks good to me.
- Liss
 
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Why have my employees given me a week off -
Hex 48 unchanging

They feel my resourcefulness has run dry.
Hi Liss,

There are various ways I could read 48 and some of the are speculations because I miss info to get a more clear image of the situation.

If you have work overtimes, then 48 could mean they try to sustain your resourcefulness, especially when they consider you a good employ and are happy with your performance.

48 could also mean that it is their Well so they may didn't like a lot the complains . Maybe they receive it as a criticism on their decision to have this person in their company... On the other hand , maybe they just gave you a week off in order to monitor better her performance after your remarks about her.

H38 : different views : could be between you and the other employee, or between you and your employers. Maybe they need that diversity or maybe you ponder on how your different styles of working can co-exist.

You life is a bit hectic those days. a week off sounds like a good opportunity to rest and relax a bit. Your h24 reading has stuck in my mind. I know its an older reading, but I still "see" it. Slow down a bit. You have work hard and achieve great things. You want a "home" ; my impression is that you are already Home; well some adjustments are still necessary but you are home.

enjoy your week :)
 
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Thanks anemos - yes I think there's no straight answer to these questions as there's a lot going on.

oh yes the Hex 24 Return - well I'm moving to my new rental this week and it's only accessible by boat and it's in the middle of nature with not many people around - so for me that will probably give me a lot of Hex 24's in itself.
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What do I need to know about my working life in general -
Hex 18.5>57
Keep praising it all up. Sadly employers tend to like people they don't have to think about, people who don't raise issues, people who just do the job quietly. I say 'sadly' because those people are the ones who are truly responsible and who care so raise the issues.

Recently a friend of mine in caring for someone with mental handicap noticed he was in danger of setting fire to himself in the night...as he had a habit of turning the gas on accidentally, lighting cigarettes, the gas not igniting etc etc What happened after she raised the concern ? Well you can guess can't you. They gave her shifts to some nitwit who didn't care and wasn't going to say anything. That's employers for you who want the most money and the least trouble.

So I think 18.5 suggests you find ways to say good things about the company...and if you do make complaints shroud them in effusive praises at the same time.

Like "everything is wonderful, I'm so happy, there's just this small concern I have...." well that won't fit but you get the picture.

18.5 here could also mean take care to talk things up to yourself. Focus on what's gone well and praise yourself and praise what's happening.


However 48uc to me made this seem not a deliberate act against you but more due to their resourcing issues. 48 is the well, the source. if the bucket won't reach the water or it's cracked then no water. You just didn't get to reach the water. I feel if it were more a planned act against you you would have gotten a more complex cast.



oh yes the Hex 24 Return - well I'm moving to my new rental this week and it's only accessible by boat and it's in the middle of nature with not many people around - so for me that will probably give me a lot of Hex 24's in itself.

Wow ! Sounds amazing...post some pics won't you ? Only accessible by boat ! ? Wow !
 

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oh yes the Hex 24 Return - well I'm moving to my new rental this week and it's only accessible by boat and it's in the middle of nature with not many people around - so for me that will probably give me a lot of Hex 24's in itself.
:)
Great news Liss. Sound a nice place.

so to sum up you have a new job, a new house and... A party to prepare for Clarity people. :)

Will bring the best Greek wine !!!

Cheers !!!
 
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Thanks trojan - I sorta thought too that they might have given me the week off so I can replenish my own resources - as in a healthy mind and body. They're aware of my car breaking down beyond repair and my need to find a rental etc.
Do you think it's possible that's what Hex 48 could mean here?

I was very surprised at the way they responded to my email because they're forever on at me to communicate no matter what it's about. I know I don't say much about much except for those naughty kids and just get on with it really, and then when I do speak up that was there response. They didn't talk about it with me they just said take a week off and that was it. I know darn well there business is becoming successful partly because of how I am with the kids and most of them don't want to go home when their parents pick them up even telling their parents to come back later and the parents like to have a chat with me.The other school that is part of their business isn't doing well at all and they started 6 months prior - not trying to blow my own trumpet (or perhaps I am haha) but I believe it would be more their loss than mine if I were to leave.

Hmmm - I did praise the other staff including the woman I complained about and also the fact that I've learned so much since working there, particularly about myself.

I will take photos and post when I move there :)
 
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anemos - awesome tell me what Greek wines are the best, please - I wonder if I can get them in Ozland - Liss
 

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ahh, there so many different varieties that is hard to recommend any.

here is a list; to give you a taste ;)

Let me know which one's you want me bring to the party :)
 

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Are you a teacher or a support worker or carer for the kids Liss ? Just curious.





Thanks trojan - I sorta thought too that they might have given me the week off so I can replenish my own resources - as in a healthy mind and body. They're aware of my car breaking down beyond repair and my need to find a rental etc.
Do you think it's possible that's what Hex 48 could mean here?
Well yes all these things, your resources need attending to. You can move the city not the well is what 48 says. I can't say I really know what 48uc means but I think it could well be they just wanted you to have some time to get things together. Having said that giving you a week off doesn't help so much if they don't pay you. I assume if you don't work you don't get paid ?

I've known employers 'order' people to take time off when they are deemed unwell or too stressed and so on. It can be they want to just let you have a break. You could ask them I suppose if you are worried.


.The other school that is part of their business isn't doing well at all and they started 6 months prior - not trying to blow my own trumpet (or perhaps I am haha) but I believe it would be more their loss than mine if I were to leave.
Sounds likely that it would be more their loss. Good staff are not always easy to come by.
 
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I work in OOSH which is outside of school hours care. My role is a carer/homework assistant/supervisor of the inexperienced staff.
The truth is that the business was started in the middle of last year by two friends who've no idea what they are doing or how to run a business except the admin side.
I don't know for sure but I'm guessing I'm the only one who's had any training and/or experience in childcare eg. there are no consequences in place if the children misbehave except they signed a behaviour policy - the kids are between 5 and 10 years old, how many of them would have ever signed such a thing. :/
There's no consequences or back up plan if the parents don't pick up their child on time. We don't even receive payslips with our pay so I can't actually see what's going on there. etc.
So along comes Liss and starts perhaps upsetting their (dis)order of things. Who knows - I don't really want this job anymore except that I don't wish to be out of work because as you pointed out no work, no pay. - Liss
 
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ahh, there so many different varieties that is hard to recommend any.

here is a list; to give you a taste ;)

Let me know which one's you want me bring to the party :)
haha thanks anemos - will do - imagine that, imagine clarity members meeting at a big party somewhere - Liss
 
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So I thought I'd ring and ask them - they said we felt you needed a week off as you have so much going on - Hex 48 replenish self. I then asked why they hadn't responded to my email and was told they were unsure how they are going to deal with the issues I'd raised Hex 38. Hmm well that's good but why couldn't they just have sent a quick email saying something like - Liss we feel you need a break with everything that's going on but we'll see you next week and the issues you raised with us will be addressed asap. eh!! It's called effective communication - one of the first rules in business I'd reckon. ok rant over - Liss
 

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You asked why they simply could not say this


Liss we feel you need a break with everything that's going on but we'll see you next week and the issues you raised with us will be addressed asap. eh!! It's called effective communication

Oh I find this all the time....people all over the place with completely useless communication skills working as managers or working in jobs......for money :eek:. Like how hard is it to communicate clearly ?

How long does it take to write one sentence ? I could rant alongside you for hours. :rolleyes:
 
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As it turns out the Hex 48 was a chance for them to replenish more staff without including me and Hex 38 turns out they don't like my opposing viewpoints.
Not sure about Hex 18 Line 5 cause I no longer have a job with them. They made it perfectly clear they no longer want me working there by giving me one shift this week instead of three and when I said oh they said like it or walk away from the job. I walked away.

I'm about to move to my new place and have sent a resume into the local day care centre close by and also another centre a bit further away.

What is the potential I will be offered a job with the HR day care centre

Hex 14.3.4>41

Hex 14 is the skills I have to offer and Line 3 offering those skills for employment but Line 4 suggests it's a good idea to look elsewhere for employment.

What is the potential I will be offered a job at B

Hex 33.4>53

Looks like that's a no too but by retreating I actually progress. - Liss
 
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As it turns out the Hex 48 was a chance for them to replenish more staff without including me and Hex 38 turns out they don't like my opposing viewpoints.
Thanks for the feedback and sorry for losing that job.

Not sure about Hex 18 Line 5 cause I no longer have a job with them. They made it perfectly clear they no longer want me working there by giving me one shift this week instead of three and when I said oh they said like it or walk away from the job. I walked away.
you ask for your work life in general and not about this job :mischief:

should I quote what you said to blue angel for her 18.5 reading ? ;)

Liss, I think you try too hard and you are hard to your self. You strive to fix all the thing are not yet, in order to be happy and relax. You good intentions were not received well, maybe because they didn't "need" help. Try to be more 'laid back" and swiftly show your knowledge and expertise. Your sails need the wind to get you where you want to be. Strong winds can rip off the sails.

Take care your boat, your sails.
 

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oh thanks for updating...it's a good one to bear in mind for 48uc. Sorry to hear it though...but still I think you may come good in the 14 job

that 33.4 makes me wonder if previous employers , the ones who just dumped you, are going to ask you back. If it does Yi did a bit of question leapfrogging.


I recall you had 35 not long ago so I think your over all work direction is in the direction of progress
 
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Thanks anemos - what thread was that from? Good advice though :)

Hi Trojan - yes I've a funny feeling they might ask me to come back and work for them too but I thought I was may be just being a bit 'egoish'. I've a feeling they will lose clients because I'm not there but I think I already spoke about that on another thread.

hmmm I sort of thought that about Hex 14 too but Line 4 threw me a bit so that's when I thought oh maybe not.
It's a fairly small place where I'm going so people notice a new comer - I've wondered whether the director of the child care centre will 'check me out' in general, you know just see what I'm like about town before she invites me to work for her - Liss
 
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I've moved into my new place hoping to have just a week off but the employers of the second reading have contacted me wanting me to come in for an interview on Friday - so that's great to know they are interested so far.
I haven't heard back from the other potential employer.
How would it benefit me to email the director of HR again

Hex 22.3>27

This looks good but then I think oh what if she wants to see me this week too when all I really want to do is relax. - Liss
 

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22.3 looks lovely for relaxation especially since the imagery in the line is of wetness.

Hilary compares the imagery in this line to how we see a stone when it is dipped in water. It seems all shiny. It won't always be like that but it's very enchanting to look at.

Find some beautiful stones and wet them in the water and look at them.....then make a wish for each stone and throw each back in the water to symbolise the making of the wish and the letting go of it. It can't come true unless you let it go.

I might write a spell for every line......:D
 

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PS BTW I got 48uc for advice on how to do my writing group 'homework' yesterday. Once I got the bucket to the water all was well and I have done it. Was hard work though. I had to access memories(water) to write it.

I will be keeping this thread in mind very much when we come to 48uc in the unchanging threads. I want to see how this pans out for you and how you come to see 48uc in hindsight.

Right now I am seeing it as there's this resource of some kind...but can we actually get at it or can it be used ?

You have all these qualities to offer. Can the bucket reach the well ? That is is there an employer who can truly draw upon you and you upon them ?

Time will Tell
But we all Wish you Well


(no pun intended :D)
 
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So it sounds like you are saying there is more to this Hex 48 un reading than just my original question.

With this thought in mind 'That is is there an employer who can truly draw upon you and you upon them ?

I asked show me a pic of HR being worthy of what I can offer them (meaning recognise my abilities etc. seen as though last place I worked at basically went pffft!)

Hex 48.2>39

Interesting (or not) Hex 48 comes up again

Line 2 - sounds like they will not be interested in putting the best I have to use

Show me a picture of working in private care being a better place to use my skills
Hex 54.1.2>16

Line 1 suggests that a secondary idea is not a bad thing to go with.

Line 2 I wonder if that means working for myself or just on my own with children rather than in a child care centre
Liss
 

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Before we go further I think this is amazing. You have found a new place to live by water and you cast 22.3 today....and then I remembered this thread about where you'd live

http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?17461-what-sort-of-place-is-this-Hex-22-3-gt-27

I think this may mean you have now found home and it is related to the 22.3 you cast yesterday.

Okay the 22.3 you cast yesterday was a totally different question but I'm learning the Yi links everything up. We ask questions as if they in compartments but Yi gives the bigger picture.

Oh no that thread was about someone else...I need to go to bed

So that 22.3 reminded me of your old thread

How would it benefit me to email the director of HR again

Hex 22.3>27
You either give or receive a very glowing attractive vibe....but don't rely on that charm too much, nevertheless enjoy
 

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Hmm 48.2 suggests waste of your skills. maybe you could aim higher ? Is that possible ?

I mean higher placed jobs ?

Also the 54.1.2>16 private care Hmmm not so keen on that.
 
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Thanks trojan - yes the vibe so far is one of postiveness and the ones I've met have been very welcoming and helpful. One of my old friends always says how when we go out no matter where people always seem to be attracted (in a good way mainly) to me so I hope that does mean I also put out a good positive vibe.

In regards to 48 Un do you think in any way it could mean to build up your own self worth. It's been a long time coming for me and with this present journey I'm on I've said no a number of times to either jobs or places to live and seemingly it's turned out for the best and with those decisions have been I'm worth more than that. - Liss

PS in regards to that thread you mentioned I will come back to that cause right now I'm going to catch the ferry back to the mainland to do some shopping. :)
 

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In regards to 48 Un do you think in any way it could mean to build up your own self worth. It's been a long time coming for me and with this present journey I'm on I've said no a number of times to either jobs or places to live and seemingly it's turned out for the best and with those decisions have been I'm worth more than that. - Liss
Could be. The well is the limitless source of something, the resource. So when you get 48 I think you have to decide what the well is for you here. What is the water ? The water is available but the question is can we reach it ?

48.2 is certainly not a great use of resources. Seeking small gains, wasting time in smaller things when bigger gains may be possible. It's so apt for the question you asked.


I asked show me a pic of HR being worthy of what I can offer them (meaning recognise my abilities etc. seen as though last place I worked at basically went pffft!)

Hex 48.2>39

Interesting (or not) Hex 48 comes up again

Line 2 - sounds like they will not be interested in putting the best I have to use
It looks like they don't use your qualities fully and it's interesting you are thinking in terms of putting what you have to the best use. I wonder if some kind of self employment may work where you are more in control ? Not sure, that can be stressful too. But certainly don't under estimate yourself. I think recent events with family probably have been undermining to your self esteem so you need to keep it intact.
 
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Well I guess the water for me is teaching children in the most creative way I can without limitations - a bit like Montessori or Steiner where education is based on the individual.

Please show me the way to makes this 'water' available for myself

Hex 7.4.5>47

oh gosh what the hell does that mean?

- Liss
 

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Well I guess the water for me is teaching children in the most creative way I can without limitations - a bit like Montessori or Steiner where education is based on the individual.

Please show me the way to makes this 'water' available for myself

Hex 7.4.5>47

oh gosh what the hell does that mean?

- Liss
LOL look at 47 where the water drains from the lake. It looks like there is nothing you can do right now, conditions don't favour it. Tou have a campaign (7) and you will find eventual success but right now slacken the pace (7.4) and try to rest up. There really are opportunities around in 7.5 but you need to be the cool calm collected adult to use them to your advantage. Don't grasp now, take your time.

There are times nothing can be done....so for now you must hold off and rest (7.4) and make yourself slow and dignified about it all (7.5) I think you may be in danger of slight panic thinking....try not to do that.
 
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Thanks - this thread and your input is certainly making me stop and think and rethink what I'm doing. Yes I had been panicky but yesterday I thought just stop this - my friend is also a creative writer like you and living here gives me chance to perhaps touch on that myself so only one place to start and that's get a subject and write. I walked away from the computer took pad and pen,two tarot cards to help me write a cover letter about what I want and went and sat down near the jetty. It was a good exercise and now I will send this cover letter when applying for jobs and say this is what I'm about if this resonates with you perhaps we can work together. I'm no longer frantic and accept perhaps I will struggle again for a while but that's ok just go with it. Other things happened late yesterday to stop me in my tracks and I had a real Hex 24 moment - and that's what I've been looking for. - Liss
 

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